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Originally Posted by maskedmelonpai
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also lhance, if someone really do understand that they death going to destroy others and they still kill theyself because some other deep pain, then they really is selfish. that dont trivialize they pain, but they are placing they own interest above others. i just don't believe that most people do that. most have whatever pain they have and don't believe they death gonna affect anyone in any significant or irreparable way.
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No one knows exactly what the person is aware of when they commit suicide except for that person so hard to theorize on this.
I also think that any thought about their own death and how it will affect others is so far out of their mind it's just not something they thinking about.
It has to be some massive anguish and sadness for a person to reach a point where they mentally circumvent the innate survival instincts we are born with to end their own life.
This is not being selfish, this is about being at a point where they honestly feel they better off dead.
It's not about others, how it will make others feel, it's all about ending a pain that none of us can fathom or else we'd have done or tried to do what Chester did.