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Originally Posted by wulfenger
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Thank you for the generalization though. I can tell you've had a couple situations that didn't go your way.
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Heh, this server attracts some interesting folks from time to time.
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Originally Posted by wulfenger
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The ladder comment is something I don't concern myself with. I give my reasoning and if the flame continues then I just say you won't get it if you continue being aggressive towards me. It's a legitimate situation and not everyone has the capacity to calm down.
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If someone continues to be a dick then absolutely, stop grouping with them, tell them to fuck off, or whatever.
All I'm saying is that, as long as you're dealing with someone who there's still hope for, and as long as you want to prioritize
getting the response you want, then you should de-prioritize
getting to respond the way you want. If you respond in a way that's the opposite of how their behavior is making you want to respond it will result in better outcomes for you (like more XP because your group stays together longer), even if it hurts to be nice to someone who's not being nice to you.
But then of course there are other things to care about besides just keeping your group together.