I usually tell the group what the problem is I'm having with one or several members of it. Tell them that if the problem isn't fixed I'll leave. I look for a replacement but if the problem persists I leave, replacement or not.
9 times out of 10 they never understand why I have a problem with something.
So I guess it is easier for people to make up excuses so they can save face rather then piss off a group of people who don't understand the problem.
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