[Occam's Butter Knife]

None of the above.

Once past level 35 it will make no difference.

What the hell lets go there. I like Erudite since the high INT score means you can focus on getting CHA and HP items earlier. Going High Elf sacrifices 15 INT to get 10 CHA vs an Erudite. Plus Eruds can move to Queynos and have easy access to quests that reward +3 INT earrings and a +3 CHA necklace. Of courses my current Chanter is High Elf since I never played that race on live.

Do not stress about CHA early on since it impacts resists for lulls and charm spells only. Get it above 100 at some point. That is easily done with a Crude Stein (+15) and a Golden Cat's Eye Amulet (+7). When you're ready to make charm a full part of your repertoire then push to 200.