Get 2x
http://wiki.project1999.com/Platinum_Fire_Wedding_Ring
HP is your best friend. Then CHA/INT. I only gave my chanter those rings and she was fine. at 52 I just (yesterday) upgraded from pants w/ only ac to loam pants. Your gear is not super important. But that said, CHA gear is cheap, so is some INT gear.
http://wiki.project1999.com/A_Crude_Stein
http://wiki.project1999.com/Rod_of_Insidious_Glamour
The rod becomes super important at lvl 30 when you can click it because it is instant cast and will reset your global cool down. Single most important piece of gear.