[DrKvothe]

You can buy pretty godly items for cheap on this server. Save for a wu's quivering staff and 2x 5/55 rings. Also get yourself magic boots/gloves. Otherwise you can't punch/kick some mobs (they're immune to non-magic physical damage). Gloves can be gotten for free in innothule or uguk from frogloks, along with a half decent set of stat-less armor (netted, woven, or mesh). But as an iksar that's quite a journey.

Your fists are going to be a lot better than the crap that drops for you until you can buy something better in EC. Check the monk wiki page to see the fist ratios at various levels and to compare them with junk weapon drops. One item that is currently OP (but set to be nerfed) is a skipping stone from swamp of no hope mob lvl 4ish. You should get 2, one for yourself and one for your wife. You can both sneak pull with this for fantastic results!

Don't kill any burynai. They're pretty common throught kunark zones and as long as you've never killed on they'll leave you alone. One kill brings faction with them down to kos, though. They're typically harder and less profitable than your other kunark zone hunting targets so don't ruin faction with them.

The two of you could tear up kurn's starting around lvl 12. This is an ideal dungeon for a monk/druid duo because it's almost entirely single-pullable so the relatively poor crowd control doesn't matter. Unfortunately, it's quite a long way to get more spells for her so she should bring her most important ones for upcoming levels with her. I'd say minimum bring ring of commons. When she hits 19 she can self-port to commons, sell all of y'alls loot in EC (bone chips ftw!), buy you a wu's quivering staff and herself the rest of her spells.

After the green con to blue con ratio starts getting shitty in upper levels of kurns, you guys should try to farm you an iksar berzerker club in the basement. This will make a fantastic 1hb weapon for you to practice your skills with.

Then head to LoIO near windmill and go nuts. She can charm and either fear/snare while you and pet act as dots or, if target isn't an animal, she can just heal you while you and pet tear up the mob.