Once you get Charm as an Enchanter, you are one of the best solo classes is the game along with Necromancer.
Look up some charm kiting techniques and locations.
http://xornn.tripod.com/introduction.htm
or the wiki version of this guide
http://wiki.project1999.com/Xornns_Enchanter_Guide
Here is a small level list of charming spots as you level:
http://www.project1999.com/forums/sh...d.php?t=146423
If you want to be proactive in group and keep a charmed pet going (Pref one with Backstab, you will add greatly to the DPS)
I would recommend you finding GamTextTriggers and GINA to set up some timer and sounds that will show you Mez durations and play a sound when your charm breaks so you can quickly regain control in the middle of the fray. Without a clicky, I used Lvl 4 Mez>MR Tash>Recharm on breaks. When you get a clicky, you can just use Tash, Stun, Charm in quick succession.
Keep some merchant bought Torches in your inventory to give to some pets with dual wield to give them a quad attack. Sarnak fort in LOIO is great for this.