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Originally Posted by fuji
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As many of you know i recently broke up with my gf because of unfaithful acts, but that didnt stop me from hitting the scene again.
I have now been dating a new girl for over a month and we got to talking about the future. She says she wants to be a "home maker", I was like, "WTF". So I go out and work all day, while you sit around and do small chores that I could do on the weekend? Do those even exist anymore?
I remember back in the 60-70's when the men had good paying jobs with pensions and full benefits and 4 kids with a manual washer and it made sense. But are you telling me in this day where I have no pension, small benefits and a $17/hr job, that you want to sit around and "do stuff around the house" all day while we struggle financially our entire lives?
Why are a lot of girls looking for someone to "take care" of them? Don't you have ambitions?
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Marriage is about communication my friend. As in, communicate your expectations for each other. She will have an expectation that you provide for her financially, and you will have an expectation that she will have your meal prepared, the house will be cleaned, she will take care of business sexually and she will get herself to the gym REGULARLY. You can throw in some additional rules as you see fit.
If she can't handle those expectations (in exchange for not having to work), then she needs to let you know before you get married. If you can't handle forcing her to stick to those rules, don't get married.
That is all.
Disclaimer: These rules are for non-procreating marriages only. The rules go out the fucking window when the first demon baby comes flying down the chute.