Fuji has a very valid point, a lot of girls just want to stay home and be taken care of - and I honestly understand it. Women fought for their rights to vote and to be treated just as fairly as anyone else, so why wouldn't you want to go our and do something to better yourself and your family? Hmmm, could it be laziness?
Why doesn't she just start her own business at home on the internet and then she can stay home and watch her profits roll in as she's being the "homemaker" with the kids?
I remember when I was a kid, I wanted to own my own horse stabling business. Now I'm the co-owner if an internet development company AND working full-time at an accounting firm, so when it comes time to have kids (not for a while) - it won't be an issue if I wanted to stay home because I can work out of my home.
So Fuji, you asked "Why are a lot of girls looking for someone to "take care" of them? Don't you have ambitions?", it's likely that she doesn't have ambitions or maybe she was taken care of all her life and is used to it. My younger sister is exactly this way and I cringe at the thought of her making babies.
Either way, I wish you the best of luck...sounds like you'll need it.
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