Yea, I've tried all that, thanks though. This thread that was just posted seems relevant:
http://www.project1999.com/forums/sh...d.php?t=164561
I also have similar issues on blue where I'll get disconnected at times or spells grayed out with no packet loss, which has only happened since I reinstalled a couple weeks ago, never in previous years I've played. They definitely seem to be having some issues with their hosting, or there's an issue with a router along the way that lots of people have to connect through.