Vesica Dei seems to have found a great mix of mature people who know how to have fun while killing serious mobs. We may have a few members who are younger than college age, but if there are it hasn't jumped out at me. I've been tagged a bit less than a month, but am having more fun now than ever. And we have quite a few RL couples / families - anyone who thinks that there aren't any real women playing EQ hasn't been in our voice chat
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There's the occasional - sometimes more than others - cursing both in game and in chat, but we're also pretty good about keeping it clean(er) when we know our members kids are near the screen or speakers.
Have fun looking, and I hope you find a good fit!