[Messianic]

If you want to be really thorough, it might help to start a word document, and use the alt-print screen button (takes a screenshot of your current window and adds it to clipboard, which can be pasted via ctrl-v to Word) to make screenshots of the whole process and have Uth or someone else troubleshoot it to see what you're missing.

My bet is that you're missing a really minor step somewhere along the way, or you have some slightly weird contextual problem (networking/port issue, etc) that's preventing you from connecting.