So if I just secretly lie to everyone and tell them my newborn child just woke up unexpectedly and I need to dip it makes it ok? I know that is taking this to another extreme but how are we to descern the truth in these situations?
Unfortunately none of us actually know what is going on with most people and if they join and leave on their own schedule its an exercise in futility to try to control or influence that. I am not defending people who intentional fuck over a group nor ones that ask other people to run 12 zones across the game to join them only to /log because they are tired. I am only humored by people trying to treat this like something it is not, e.g. the OP. This is not a social contract with a bunch of people who have nothing better to do than play this game all day and thus can be reasonably held responsible when they decide not to. Why must each of us adhere to someone else's strict set of behavioral rules?
I will not treat this GAME as a higher priority than anything other than a wart in my real life, and I will never ever ask one of you to either. If we are not in agreement I will do the legwork for you all and make sure I don't group with you as my sense of humor would probably only cause issues.
Just remember I love all of you equally and wish you the best.
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