You all seem to be missing the only real point in this thread. This is a game, but as real people are involved on the other end of those interwebs, treat this as you _should_ anything else in your life. That is, take responsibility for your own feeling and frustrations. If things do not go the way you personally feel that it should, well take the necessary steps to ensure that they do so in the future. Bitching and moaning passive aggressive like about how someone else wronged you is childish, naive, immature, and is not going to solve anything.
If you find that some people are assholes and dip out at a moments notice, there is nothing wrong with making a mental note and choosing option B next time you are seeking new group members. However, if you take no steps to explicitly clarify your personal expectations, and you ask no questions about each persons intents and schedules as the group progresses, you are the error in your own equation.
All I see here are people making up their own nonverbal rule sets, and then being offended when other players do not adhere to them. Is that not a bit silly?
/g Hey anyone need to head out soon? If so lets get a replacement inc now.
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