Change this:
"C:\Program Files (x86)\Sony\EverQuest\EQEmuLauncher.exe"
to this
"C:\Program Files (x86)\Sony\Everquest\Eqgame.exe" patchme
and download and extract this:
http://www.project1999.com/files/P99Files31.zip
to your everquest directory.
If that doesn't work PM me and we'll go from there. Might have patched your install to live but I doubt it.