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Originally Posted by abacab-winner
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Wekapaug just mad because I see nothing but black and white, and not acknowledging his multiple shades of gray.
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Not mad at all, and this isn't an argument, but that's how I know you are clueless.
If you truly are autistic, I meant no offense. It's just that you purport to speak with authority about a subject that, clearly, you have zero experience with besides having read something on the internet.
There is zero black and white in any of this. The only absolutes are standards of conduct between participants, honoring limits, safewords, etc. Beyond that it truly varies greatly from one individual to another and from relationship to relationship. Sorry.
And "vanilla" isn't meant to be an offensive term, and it shoudln't be taken as an insult. It just means "not one of us," basicly.