I could see why that ended the marriage. Unless you're dead honest with your fiancee, you absolutely shouldn't be getting married. Gender identity issues don't pop up over night, it's usually an ongoing struggle from ages 4-5 on. Honesty about that type of stuff could definitely kill a relationship, but it's something the other person deserves to know. If someone is open minded enough to accept it, that would only end up making the relationship stronger. But pretending to be normal is usually easier... until it isn't.
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