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Originally Posted by Cecily [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Love is love. All the labels do is make it "ok". I know two couples where the husband has had a breakdown and is like, "Lol. Suprise honey," and get a sex change. In both cases, the person's wife has stayed with their partner because they fell in love with the person, not that person's sex. Makes me wonder if you wouldn't see a lot more same sex relationships if that stigma was removed.

Of course that could just be a way to rationalize the cognitive dissonance caused by, "I'm a lesbian now?" I personally think that situation is one of the most fucked things you can do to someone else. Men with GID often try to play it normal for a long long time. Career, wife, kids. They get locked in, then dysphoria kicks in and the world falls apart for everyone in their life. Pretty sad to see. Saw it with my uncle. Status quo, sex change, or suicide? Those are basically the only options for trans people. All have serious negatives and will hurt anyone around them, regardless of the choice. Ain't fun.

thats pretty crazy. my aunt found out her husband was a closet transvetite and that rly kinda ended the marriage