mouse out of sync
 

my mouse is out of sync right from the start and i havent even been able to customize my character i tried everything is there any way to force the game into windowed mode? alt + enter doesnt work

I have had this problem, but using my displays native resolution seemed to alleviate it.

Go into your eqclient.ini file, make sure you've got

WindowedMode=TRUE

...and have a resolution set to your monitor's etc.