Any advice on breakups
 

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Any advice?

Married 5 years, kid is 3, another on the way.

Yeah i'm "polyamorous". Want to fuck other people, mostly with her. She cant deal. Wants to divorce if im not "totally stoked" to be with just her.

Want to loooove and have the dream of old life bliss and all that.

Shes a newyorker and im a midwesterner

31 years old

I could leave but i hate failure and i do love her. Dont want to leave her, the boy, my unborn.

Hook me up w some nsa advice

Thanks deru for letting this ride for a moment

Love you fuckers

Honestly as a non-troll:

You got a kid together (and another on the way), time to grow up and stop thinking with your penis. Seen this with few of my pals; they punch a kid out with their missus then their life changes so they want to run away from it all.


So what happens when you're 35, you're over random bangs; you want to come back to your family? your son is 7 ur other kid is 4? and you're the dead-beat dad that left their life/family/mother?

Kid's are forever; what you do now and in the future affects them.

wipe it clean

Suck it up, buttercup. Deal with the monogamy or go through with the divorce. Whatever you do be there for your fucking kids or get fucked with a rake.

Best advice right here.

Gotta start by growing up

it's time to let other women go. Those girls that are okay with hooking up with a guy with a family simply want what you got in the end. Meanwhile you're actively trying to destroy what you got. If you're successful in pushing the family away, you'll indeed be spending all your time later chasing what you once had. By then they might of found someone that plays your role better.

Tldr: once that first child was born, it became no longer about you.
A family that plays p99 together stays together.

Polyamarous=no self control.

Raw dog it

Just fuck other woman on the side like everyone else what the hell is this firegiant talking about?

ur wife sounds hot