If it's something like hadden at least 5 mins and I've made sure to send them a few tells before engaging. At least 3 mins other places. If someone is sitting there/nearby i always make sure to send them a tell regardless.

For sure, alongside an imgur album as it happened time /time throughout. It's incredibly douchey thing to do since it's lore item.

this is a man who respects the poop; a man of reason.

I will say for Hadden, one of the best things you can do is stand right on-top of the spawn. Right before it pops, send him a tell saying "If you slip, even for a moment, this is mine" and then afk for the next 24 hours yourself. Now he'll be way more paranoid and it'll turn his nice little passive Hadden camp into a stress-fest that leads to some massive burnout.

Album! Album!