So for an update. I got a new Modem and separate router from my cable company. Same issues. I have also uninstalled the full game from my cpu and then redownloaded from the eq site a few diff times to see if i can get it to work.

New update (SUCCESS!)

Dridan came over with a flash drive and copied my EQ Folder + EQ Emulator Server launcher folder and....

Everything works for him now.

We have no idea why his install from the eq website + also tried EQ install from Steam did not work for him...

Uninstalled and re-installed many times, but a copy directly from my HD to his flash drive and copied over to both his laptop and home PC proved completely successful.

DE Necro + DE Enchanter coming to a friendly newbie log near YOU!

There is your answer. Live and Steam use clients different than Titanium. ONLY TITANIUM WILL WORK WITH P99, DO NOT USE OTHER CLIENTS. DO NOT UPDATE THE CLIENT.

Crucial ^^

As to let you guys know....

My install/client was from the EQ Website

Not sure why mine worked then, since it's not considered Titanium.