EQ irl

[Wudan]

so I met my friend today, have not seen him for a year. We had some bad blood between us after my mom died. We are high school friends and we used to play EQ together back in the day. He had GF and they were planning life together. Hed took a loan to buy this apartment for them. They also planned to have a baby. She left him couple months after that because of this guy she met in EQ. They "fell in love" he came over here from the u.s. He even told me the guy took over his EQ account and played his shaman toon. I could not believe it... my friend is pretty fucked up now and idk what to do to help him. He is drinking big time:( lifes fucked sometimes

sry for typos, im drunk

[batkiller]

Ehh early relationships rarely work out. She found someone more suited to her, time for him to move on and do the same. If he hits the bottle everytime things dont go his way, then he's going to have a crappy life. Plenty more fish in the sea etc.. time to get out there and make things better.

[Grahm]

so is this friend you then? :(

[Wudan]

Ehh early relationships rarely work out. She found someone more suited to her, time for him to move on and do the same. If he hits the bottle everytime things dont go his way, then he's going to have a crappy life. Plenty more fish in the sea etc.. time to get out there and make things better.

they met when they were 25 and been together for 7 years, not an early relationship

[gnatte]

Whores happen!

[Barkingturtle]

my friend is pretty fucked up now and idk what to do to help him.

PL and a BJ, IMO.

[Slave]

32, he's just starting his life. Once he gets laid a few times, spends some time with some new friends, he'll thank the powers of the universe that he didn't get stuck with some shallow whore like that.

[Auchae]

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

[Tarathiel]

He even told me the guy took over his EQ account and played his shaman toon.

sorry, but this made me laugh a little bit

[Lagaidh]

sorry, but this made me laugh a little bit

That was the part that made me doubt the veracity of the entire vignette =)

[tekniq]

damn she even gave him his toon? cold blooded.

[ojamajoe]

Must have played on Firiona Vie...

[BruizeLee]

PL and a BJ, IMO.

hilarious LMAO

[Danyelle]

He even told me the guy took over his EQ account and played his shaman toon.

>2012
>giving your girlfriend/boyfriend the passwords to anything not necessary for the two of you to live together
>not changing account info once you split up for security reasons

I seriously hope you guys don't do this.

[batkiller]

they met when they were 25 and been together for 7 years, not an early relationship

Painful. But still, plenty of time to get out there and find someone else.

[insertname]

ok first how do you buy an apartment? Did you mean condo, or just the upfront to rent/lease the thing? If a condo - yeah ouch, same as a house anymore..apartment? pffft.
He should be glad they didn't get married, or he'd be living under a bridge after the divorce. That said, whats HER side? Sure she might be a money grubbing cock whore, OR he may be an abusive douche - or just as simple as emotionally distant. who knows.

Either way, in the end - its just another ex girlfriend. Tell him he should grab a tissue, wipe his vagina then grow some testicles and move on.

This coming from a recent divorce - so been there x10.

"only person who feels sorry for you, is you. so MAN up."
-me

[Wudan]

ok first how do you buy an apartment? Did you mean condo, or just the upfront to rent/lease the thing? If a condo - yeah ouch, same as a house anymore..apartment? pffft.
He should be glad they didn't get married, or he'd be living under a bridge after the divorce. That said, whats HER side? Sure she might be a money grubbing cock whore, OR he may be an abusive douche - or just as simple as emotionally distant. who knows.

Either way, in the end - its just another ex girlfriend. Tell him he should grab a tissue, wipe his vagina then grow some testicles and move on.

This coming from a recent divorce - so been there x10.

"only person who feels sorry for you, is you. so MAN up."
-me

sorry to be so honest, but you are an idiot.

[Atmas]

Tell your friend if it wasn't meant to be its not worth worrying about. It's hard to see it from the outside perspective, but if that girl did that stuff to him what did he really lose? Not someone worth while.

[Wudan]

Tell your friend if it wasn't meant to be its not worth worrying about. It's hard to see it from the outside perspective, but if that girl did that stuff to him what did he really lose? Not someone worth while.

I know, but im having problems deliviring this to him. They have been together for quite a long time and it really looked like they are gonna stay together. They were planing baby, he took the loan on his name and then she just went nuts...i mean online love from EQ? WTF? So he is now stuck with the loan which is not small, cant really get out of it. He is like fuck all women now... he used to have drinking problems before, but it never got out of hand. I met with him now and there were moments those of you dealing with heavy drunk parents or close people know... moments when they are not themselves. He looked at me at one moment and did not fucking recognize me....he was llike getting aggressive cause he thought im someone else...and then he flipped and goes im sorry man, I did not recognize you....at that moment I had fuckin tears in my eyes, cause this is my frind I have knows all my life... its fucked and idk what to do to help him....i dont even know why I write it here...

sry for the spelling

[Nuggie]

Try to keep him active, with other people. I didn't mean sexually, but that works too. Being around people helps.

[Barkingturtle]

Sometimes when life gets you down you just gotta drink it out, yo.

[evilnancyreagan]

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

word

[fishingme]

Luckily I found this out before my first relationship a while ago. When you get into a relationship, no doubt you may find love in it but you need to keep in mind that it's basically a business relationship. Business relationships end, and so do relationships. This is why you don't want to do anything hasty in one. Compartmentalize it all, there's plenty of bitches out there. I would suggest you get some coke, x, lots of weed, pre-funk like a mofoer, and then go to a good strip joint with a group of friends with this friend of yours. I'd suggest portland, but it seems you don't live in the US

[evilnancyreagan]

I'd suggest portland

Portland: Most Strip Joints per Capita!

My personal fav is the vegan one: cause you don't eat meat but, you want to see some flesh :cool:

[Sithel1988]

i most certainly didn't tell anyone i was an asshole to my GF when she left me. i just said she was a bitch. soooooooooo insertname might be on to something

[insertname]

sorry to be so honest, but you are an idiot.

seems I touched a nerve
simple fact, he can drink himself into oblivion or man up and get past it. its just that simple.
idiot? lol yeah ok

[ice64]

Damn, that sucks OP. I know something similar happened. I knew this couple on Xbox Live. were together for 12 years, had a couple of kids together, and were engaged. Then the woman met some guy on Xbox Live and decided to leave behind her fiance and two kids for him. :| Some women are just whores. This is the kind of thing that can make a person bitter for the rest of their lives.

[Brimacombe]

If I loan someone 5 dollars and they dodge me instead of paying me back, I think "Better to find out they can't be trusted for 5 dollars than 5 thousand." Yup, for only five dollars I found out if I can trust them, and that's a bargain by anyone's standards. ;)
You were going to find out sooner or later. Better sooner than later. Sorry about your loss.

- Brimacombe