How to meet girls?

[Fane]

Hello everyone, I'm pretty tired of getting some rejections from girls in real life, I want to meet some girl on the Internet, can you recommend a good dating site?

[starkind]

Are you a successful millionaire yet? This happens naturally once you don't suck so bad.

Also, use a condom.

Try Jordan Peterson. Or some other group activity like church quire if you aren't super athletic. Maybe Drama Club. Or like go hand out food to the homeless on the beach, don't date any of them drug addicts tho.

Girls like cool people, who are low BMI, don't smell weird or have greasy hair/skin, good chatters, knowledgeable while not being know-it-alls or control freaks. Self motivated and established, independent. (you pay rent and don't live with mom, although if you do you may be able to find a smelly fat girl in a similar situation who likes to be neglected like you neglect yourself). Self entertained (not to clingy or dependent on them for fulfillment). Funny (not morbid gross uncle funny tho). And especially important, dress in more colors than black and have other friends first, doesn't matter what sex or gender those friends are, that is probably the #1 most important thing.

They will be impressed by your katana skills hobby if you can meet the above critieria, if you can't well. Yikes.

Also real girls are foody connisiours so it helps to also be a 5 star Michellen chef, and fighter pilot, with a great singing voice, and dance moves. Bring them treats and they will forever swoon to you.

Also never ever ever admit to being a virgin lawl. (also don't make up dumb fake shit to look like you are not a virgin either)

DRUGS and untied shoelaces are a dealbreaker for me for sure. If you don't meet any of these criteria, it's not that you really actually suck or have low potential, it's just that you haven't decided you are worth having all these things in your life, and you probably think a girl will fill that void. Most likely. There must be exceptions. Although I have not met one. Either that or you are disabled in some horrific way due to progress and you probably shouldn't contribute to someone else's mental health issues or the genepool without addressing your own first. Seek help in the community by being a good samaritan and working on projects to better your neighboorhood, village, family, school, friends w/e if that is the case. They will teach you how to be happy and then females will flock to your happy vibes.

[F0rmsh1fter]

Starkind pretty much summed it up
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[starkind]

Ya I joined the military and learned how to chop firewood, garden, and shoot a bow like in skyrim, girls just started flocking to my door. :o

[Trexller]

I replied to your RnF thread on the same topic, here's a little piece about handling rejection.

You Suck. think about it. did that bother you? should it have bothered you? are you even bothered by my insult? Good. Now apply that to women who catch your eye.

Advances rejected by an object of affection come with several punches. First, you can't pursue something you wanted, Second, an object of affection is elevated in the mind of the beholder thusly if such a thing has rejected the beholder, the logical conclusion must be some perceived short coming of said beholder.

Real Truth: Who the fuck knows why anyone does anything? No one. Did she reject you because you're fat n' ugly? or did she reject you because she just got out of a bad relationship, and feels like she cannot take on anything new right now? Or did she reject you because she herself feels inadequate?

There are millions of reasons, if you let yourself become hung up on the why or what, there is literally a pheromone stench of desperation. Some chemical that lets other animals know, "This Bro Doesn't Fuck" You can't shower it off, or cover it in colonge or smother it in AXE body spray. So you gotta stay cool, stoic, aloof. You don't need them, they need you, this is the image you must cultivate. Do things like ignoring women you wanna talk to, while engineering tiny little moments of contact, simple as holding a door.

tiny example: theres this new chicky at work, and last week it snowed. She parked 4 cars down from mine. I cleaned the snow off of 2 cars up from mine, and 4 cars down. I told no one. They asked around and it came to me and I said yeah I did that. The other folks were like thanks bro, and new chicky went off on some thing about how much men suck these days and its great that I did this for those people. Boom, I'm in. theres alot yet to do, but i'll get there soon. If i had only cleaned off her car, it would have been super awkward for her, and she would have clammed up, retreated etc.

Make it a hobby, see how far you can play these human mating ritual bullshit games. The entire business of dating is bullshit really, we all want the same things, yet we all play mindfuck games and dance around the issue.

When i was a kid, I was awkward AF, didn't even have the balls to talk to a pretty girl at school. The looming threat of rejection was such a bitch. One day i realized i was more afraid of the feeling of rejection, than i was of actually being rejected. I realized I didn't care if she says No, I cared about WHY she said no.

Here's what I did: For a long time, years, I asked out every girl with a decent body. All of them. Married, dating someone, IDC. I never broke the "bro code" though, if i know the guy she is dating, I don't try anything.

It's aversion therapy, immerse yourself in that thing which bothers you the most. Hit on women whom you don't care if she says yes or no, just pick someone and go for it.

If she says yes, you're probably gonna get laid in a date or two, if she says no, then what have you lost?

Nothing! because you didnt care to begin with.

[robayon]

Try Jordan Peterson.

All of Starkind's advice is valid except for this part, girls that know who Jp is will run the hell away if they are wise. Try it if you want, but don't display the book prominently.

[Reiwa]

it's a bot guys (https://www.project1999.com/forums/showthread.php?p=3411973#post3411973)

[robayon]

Aw, shucks

[unsunghero]

it's a bot guys (https://www.project1999.com/forums/showthread.php?p=3411973#post3411973)

These modern bot scripts make no sense

Back in my day (old man voice) bots usually plugged something. They’d spit a few lines about dating sites and after you answered they would shift to something like “Hey wanna see me get fucked by donkeys, check out ASSPLAY.ORG” or something like that

These modern bots just say their script and fizzle out with no plug. Just bad programming

[DeathsSilkyMist]

Like everything else in life, dating is a skill. Some people are more naturally gifted at it than others. Dating also needs other skills, such as social skills, and hygene skills.

Natural looks help, but looks cannot be easily changed, and many women honestly aren't looking for a male model, even if they claim it. Most people look somewhat attractive, unless you got extremely unlucky genetically.

You just need to keep getting back on the horse every time you fail. You will learn something new from every attempt, and level up your dating skills. Eventually you will meet someone who won't reject you. Just be patient, persistent, and don't stalk people lol. When they say they aren't interested, they probably mean it.

For your original question, if you want to practice dating online, volume is key. Join as many big sites as you can, and be as active as you can. Unfortunately these sites are designed to give you too many choices (and you really only have a picture to go with), so most of the time it is luck when you find someone who is willing to chat with you for more than 5 seconds.

[Homesteaded]

All of Starkind's advice is valid except for this part, girls that know who Jp is will run the hell away if they are wise. Try it if you want, but don't display the book prominently.

Wrong again bucko.

JP advises men get themselves in order before pursuing women. Great advice. You’re a dickless waste of space.

[Gravydoo II]

LOL you guys fell for that so hard

[robayon]

Wrong again bucko.

JP advises men get themselves in order before pursuing women. Great advice. You’re a dickless waste of space.I'm sorry that you're lonely and need the advice from proto-fascist hypocrite fools like JP, Homesteaded, but I'm married

I know I hurt your feelings in the other thread and that you're a pretty sensitive fella - not that there's anything wrong with that - but you could maybe pursue a more active hobby if you're feeling a bit lonely out there

Pickleball has worked pretty well for my dad, give that a whirl, just don't come off too desperate

[Ooloo]

Haha proto-fascist. I bet you felt so cool typing that word.

JP is a mild-mannered, clinical psychologist and author who used to teach at Harvard, he has a lot of great advice to give not just young men, but young people in general at a loss for direction or a sense of purpose in their lives, which cuts to an existential dilemma we all face.

How strong somebody's totally unfounded vendetta against JP is serves as a good measure of how crazy they are I find.

[Homesteaded]

Pickleball has worked pretty well for my dad, give that a whirl, just don't come off too desperate

Funny! I've been playing pickleball for three years now. Picked it up after I had shoulder surgery. Awesome time. I'm also married, not lonely, three children. Life is good at Homesteaded's Homestead.

How strong somebody's totally unfounded vendetta against JP is serves as a good measure of how crazy they are I find.

Pretty accurate. The old lady and I are going on a double date to a JP event this year, should be a great time. I'm not afraid to admit that JP has helped me, helped crystalize some things for me.

[F0rmsh1fter]

Lmao imagine thinking jp is any sort of fascist

I swear, these commies never did their vocal homework

[Jibartik]

I wish I could read history books about our generation.

[Toehammer]

Lmao imagine thinking jp is any sort of fascist

I swear, these commies never did their vocal homework

He does not actually think JP is a proto-fascist. Usually commies, or other wet noodles, have a problem with men with strong characters for no discernable reason, and can't provide coherent evidence that formed their opinion. Ignore button is your friend, unless you want to hear incoherent anti-capitalist, economically illiterate ramblings, sandwiched between fascist, racist, sexist, istist, formed at a junior high cognitive level. I have never met a self-proclaimed socialist, marxist, or communist that wasn't 100% pure human pu$$y repellent.

[robayon]

Looks like this really got the Alpha Males out the woodwork, hehe

Think I'll go to Russia for my crippling benzo addiction, and find a good trepanator to cure my addiction rather than follow the advice I've been giving teenagers and manchildren for years about using common sense

Me, a strong male character like Jordan Peterson

You fellas are precious. Defending someone who is basically Harry Potter, but for the fellas who apparently need to be told "women are human beings"

[Homesteaded]

Looks like this really got the Alpha Males out the woodwork, hehe

Think I'll go to Russia for my crippling benzo addiction, and find a good trepanator to cure my addiction rather than follow the advice I've been giving teenagers and manchildren for years about using common sense

Me, a strong male character like Jordan Peterson

You fellas are precious. Defending someone who is basically Harry Potter, but for the fellas who apparently need to be told "women are human beings"

More of the same ramblings. Zero knowledge of any subject they speak about.

[Reiwa]

find a good trepanator

Bad thread but I learned a new word. That's a win-win-win! :p

[Ooloo]

Yes JP absolutely acknowledges that women are human beings, which is why he agrees that biological males should not be competing in athletics against biological females, regardless of their gender identities. Because any relevant measure of athletic prowess is meaningless if you don't segregate them by biological sex.

And no, that doesn't change just because a male trans athlete loses once, or a biological female beats a male at something once.

[robayon]

Bad thread but I learned a new word. That's a win-win-win! :pI frequently have a dream where someone is drilling a hole in my skull

I also frequently have a dream where someone is cutting open my skull with a hatchet

My wife says these are probably murders in past lives, I always thought it was because I got stabbed in the face when I was a teenager

[Ooloo]

Define good thread, I challenge anyone.

[robayon]

Yes JP absolutely acknowledges that women are human beings, which is why he agrees that biological males should not be competing in athletics against biological females, regardless of their gender identities. Because any relevant measure of athletic prowess is meaningless if you don't segregate them by biological sex.

And no, that doesn't change just because a male trans athlete loses once, or a biological female beats a male at something once.I do not have a horse in this race

I also never said all of his ideas are bad, self help is rarely a bad idea... I just roll my eyes when adults quote him, he's in the same category as Dr. Phil or Dr. Oz to me... some decent advice, some bad, some hypocrisy, mostly just about making money

I think he's smarter than Shapiro and certainly a better writer, but he seems like such a colossal mess. To me it's like taking advice on marriage challenges from a counsellor who has been divorced seven times (and who puts people in the alt-right pipeline, but I understand most of you goobers don't see that as the flaw that I do)

[robayon]

Define good thread, I challenge anyone.One where nobody is allowed to post words, just images

[Reiwa]

Define good thread, I challenge anyone.

Dunno but a bot OP is a bad look, sweaty.

[unsunghero]

Watch and learn from a pussy destroyer of a pick up artist

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zYIeVFHxe28

[Homesteaded]

I do not have a horse in this race

I also never said all of his ideas are bad, self help is rarely a bad idea... I just roll my eyes when adults quote him, he's in the same category as Dr. Phil or Dr. Oz to me... some decent advice, some bad, some hypocrisy, mostly just about making money

I think he's smarter than Shapiro and certainly a better writer, but he seems like such a colossal mess. To me it's like taking advice on marriage challenges from a counsellor who has been divorced seven times (and who puts people in the alt-right pipeline, but I understand most of you goobers don't see that as the flaw that I do)

Ahh yes, grand advice here folks. Only take advice from human beings without flaws. Very thought out notion.

[Jibartik]

I definitely prefer people who are colossal messes to those that work at dental offices and watch dancing with the stars and a wild weekend for them is a stealers game.

[robayon]

If you want to put words in my mouth, you can do better than that

[starkind]

https://i.imgur.com/N3L4B5f.gif

[unsunghero]

Philion so harsh on these alphas

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YuSBdwbpSRM

[Jibartik]

It's funny to me to see all the young people shill for corporations like the consumer whores my generation tried so hard to avoid becoming.

[unsunghero]

It's funny to me to see all the young people shill for corporations like the consumer whores my generation tried so hard to avoid becoming.

It’s just a YouTube thing. Once you have become popular enough to have 100k+ views and subscribers, you put ads on your video and do promos at the start. There’s no reason not to, it’s free money. You can then take that money and hire a professional video editor who you can send your vids to, have them edit them for you, maybe give it a snappy intro, and send it back. Most of the time in making vids is editing them, so this can save someone a lot of time

You will almost never find someone with hundreds of thousands of subs on YouTube who doesn’t run ads and promos. It’s free money

[Jibartik]

It’s just a YouTube thing. Once you have become popular enough to have 100k+ views and subscribers, you put ads on your video and do promos at the start. There’s no reason not to, it’s free money.

https://i.imgur.com/uh2Hq86.gif

[Topgunben]

I actually think one of the best people to listen to online is a guy by the name of Kevin Samuels. Most of his advice is given to women seeking high quality men, though most of the women on his show are not all that high quality haha. Its good to hear from women what they are looking for, and having Kevin in there to really reign them in on what exactly they want, will help you see what they really do want.

Anyway, it seems women are most interested in the following things, likely in this order:

1: Status
2: Security

Furthermore, it appears that women associate men that can give them the above things with the following traits:

1: High income, about double what the average man makes (for the area you live in)
2: respectable employment or organizational status, self-independence
3: Physical stature, Height seems to be fairly important to women, not as important as money or status, but still important

Youll notice I left off caring, loving, funny, friendly, charming, faithful and understanding, silly and youthful. These traits, among other things are not what women are looking for primarily. They may say they want that, but the reality is, they have plenty of GFs that are willing to give them those things.

If you want to find a desirable woman, the best thing you can do is increase your income and stop acting irresponsible.

I know this might sound harsh for some men out there, but if you are still living with your parents, or renting a room with your buddies, nearly all desirable women will look at you as a liability rather than an asset.

Notice I said "desirable". That is because there is a large number of women out there that would be happy with just about any man. These women typically are below average on physical attractiveness, older, masculine, and/or overweight.

If you are ok with making the best life with one of these types of women, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Lastly, men and women want and are attracted to different things.

Men tend to be attracted to women based on physical sexual traits. Men tend to rate women on a scale from 1 to 10 based upon how good their body looks and how pretty their face is. Being a younger woman is a plus in a man's book. Men don't seem to care too much about a womans height, or income, or social status. Women on the other hand care very much about Height, income and social status, and the fact that a man is older then them is often looked at as attractive. So my point is, don't try to attract her with the things you want to be attracted to, attract her with things that "she" wants to be attracted to.

[Gravydoo II]

Wow... That was just, genius. LOL

[Trexller]

Wow... That was just, genius. LOL

Yeah TGB is pretty spot on there.

Blew your mind didn't it?

DD-214

[robayon]

I actually think one of the best people to listen to online is a guy by the name of Kevin Samuels. Most of his advice is given to women seeking high quality men, though most of the women on his show are not all that high quality haha. Its good to hear from women what they are looking for, and having Kevin in there to really reign them in on what exactly they want, will help you see what they really do want.

Anyway, it seems women are most interested in the following things, likely in this order:

1: Status
2: Security

Furthermore, it appears that women associate men that can give them the above things with the following traits:

1: High income, about double what the average man makes (for the area you live in)
2: respectable employment or organizational status, self-independence
3: Physical stature, Height seems to be fairly important to women, not as important as money or status, but still important

Youll notice I left off caring, loving, funny, friendly, charming, faithful and understanding, silly and youthful. These traits, among other things are not what women are looking for primarily. They may say they want that, but the reality is, they have plenty of GFs that are willing to give them those things.

If you want to find a desirable woman, the best thing you can do is increase your income and stop acting irresponsible.

I know this might sound harsh for some men out there, but if you are still living with your parents, or renting a room with your buddies, nearly all desirable women will look at you as a liability rather than an asset.

Notice I said "desirable". That is because there is a large number of women out there that would be happy with just about any man. These women typically are below average on physical attractiveness, older, masculine, and/or overweight.

If you are ok with making the best life with one of these types of women, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Lastly, men and women want and are attracted to different things.

Men tend to be attracted to women based on physical sexual traits. Men tend to rate women on a scale from 1 to 10 based upon how good their body looks and how pretty their face is. Being a younger woman is a plus in a man's book. Men don't seem to care too much about a womans height, or income, or social status. Women on the other hand care very much about Height, income and social status, and the fact that a man is older then them is often looked at as attractive. So my point is, don't try to attract her with the things you want to be attracted to, attract her with things that "she" wants to be attracted to.A+ top shelf post

[unsunghero]

I mean, it’s not a guarantee that a girl is going to have a robust and fulfilling social circle. That’s usually the ideal for all of us, but it’s not a guarantee

Take my dad and stepmom for example. They have friends yea, but they don’t hang out with them that much. They used to work together (until he retired with a pension) at the same office doing the same job, then come home together, and that was their life. And on the weekends, they’d spend the entire weekend doing stuff together. I told my dad countless times “yknow that’s co-dependent as fuck right?” but he somehow makes it work for going on 12 years now since his divorce. They don’t get sick of each other or even fight

So the smaller the girl’s social circle, the more time she is probably going to spend around you, unless she’s a big introvert. And if she has to spend the bulk of her free time around you, your personality is gonna matter to some degree because that’s what she has to interact with all day

Also I think age matters in regards to how much weight we put on personality; as we get older and realize looks fade, personality begins to matter more, because eventually when we’re old decrepit fucks that’s all we have left until we become senile old decrepit fucks

[Trexller]

the fact that human beings actually hook up and make more humans is really quite extraordinary if you think about it enough.

imagine sex, but without any sort of attraction or motivation to engage in it.

"I'm supposed to put my thing where? - Have you seen what comes out of there!"

this whole thing called life, existence, whatever, its really quite preposterous

all of life, really all of it, is nothing more than an exercise in perpetuating more life

there is nothing more to life.

if you think that there is, you haven't thought deep enough.

[Jibartik]

So, a bunch of self replicating computers enter a bar..

But one thing that is interesting is that females can fall madly and deeply in love after menopauses, so it may indicate partnership is more for survival than preproduction.

[Trexller]

menopause only stops factory production, but orders keep on coming in anyway.

love is nothing more than a neurochemical process that evolution gifted us for stronger social groups, which ended up being necessary given that human offspring are utterly senseless and defenseless for a few YEARS, while a newborn gazelle is running with the herd literally 5 minutes after its birth

sentience is kind of a huge evolutionary oopsie, it has effectively halted human evolution. The weakest of our species aren't culled anymore, due to this "sympathy" thing, we elevate the worst of our genetic products via social programs, special schooling etc. Then we put them in groups, so they find each other and roll their unfortunate genetic dice together.

Yay humans.

[Jibartik]

bunch of cronenburg computers

edit: ironic how we make computers out of machines, I wonder if machines made computers out of organs

[Trexller]

bunch of cronenburg computers

edit: ironic how we make computers out of machines, I wonder if machines made computers out of organs

This I have pondered, but to no conclusion.

Is the cycle of the universe that machine makes animal, then animal makes machine, vice versa ad infinitum?

i guess simulation theory is more plausible.

[Reiwa]

Jordy Pete is inappropiately approriating Korean culture with his assigned partner idea.

https://i.imgur.com/wn949VU.jpeg

[starkind]

It's funny to me to see all the young people shill for corporations like the consumer whores my generation tried so hard to avoid becoming.

It’s just a YouTube thing. Once you have become popular enough to have 100k+ views and subscribers, you put ads on your video and do promos at the start. There’s no reason not to, it’s free money. You can then take that money and hire a professional video editor who you can send your vids to, have them edit them for you, maybe give it a snappy intro, and send it back. Most of the time in making vids is editing them, so this can save someone a lot of time

You will almost never find someone with hundreds of thousands of subs on YouTube who doesn’t run ads and promos. It’s free money

https://i.imgur.com/uh2Hq86.gif



https://i.imgur.com/ERWz5Ub.jpeg

Jordy Pete is inappropiately approriating Korean culture with his assigned partner idea.

https://i.imgur.com/wn949VU.jpeg

North or south? :confused:

[Tunabros]

got some advice

1. stop being an incel
2. stop talking on elf forums

[Tunabros]

im actually losing IQ everytime starkind makes a post

holy moly

[p99deadstarre]

https://i.imgur.com/sdP01Ig.jpeg

[Jibartik]

That... is a lot of pegging. 😬

[Secrets]

That's the best part, you don't.

[starkind]

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[Jibartik]

1

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2

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3

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[unsunghero]

https://i.imgur.com/ER6hhfi.jpeg

[unsunghero]

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“What’s going on with these increases in rates of children and teen mental illness?

For one, it’s being misdiagnosed a lot more often…

[Jibartik]

“What’s going on with these increases in rates of children and teen mental illness?

For one, it’s being misdiagnosed a lot more often…

we're designed to believe in something but our gods were destroyed in a galactic cataclysm and we're adrift in an empty void.

[Reiwa]

1

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That DID chica I posted a couple days ago looked to be a tiktok vid... :eek:

[starkind]

I'm a 40 year old wierdo.

Not a Virgin tho.

[Elizondo]

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[unsunghero]

That DID chica I posted a couple days ago looked to be a tiktok vid... :eek:

I can’t diagnose but still, never seen a legit DID case, nor spoken to anyone in the MH field who has. At worst it is a dissociative trauma response. But almost always it’s…imagination!

I’d like for those tik tok kids to try to fake both the positive and negative symptoms of schizophrenia accurately. That’s incredibly hard to do. I try to do it by mimic’ing what I’ve seen past clients say and do when I am assisting with training police officers on mental health situations. And even with that reference in my mind I can’t do it that accurately

This is about as likely as the tik tok’ers DID

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YWRzPLzHJl0

[unsunghero]

What’s really going on when Tik Tok’ers claim they have DID:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ah8Vjbs3JsM