conversation with a "friend" i kicked out of my house.

[PlatLordlolz]

ok, so this is the back story. i let a friend move into my apt because he was homeless, had no where else to go, and had court coming up for possession of precursors with intent to manufacture methamphetamine. the person i rent from knows this "friend" also because he used to work for him. anyways the guy i rent from got ahold of me and told me about this "friend" and asked if it was okay he moved in for a while untill he had court, because after court he was more than likely going to jail. court finally came and he was given 4 years probation 4 years in jail with all time suspended. this friend has over stayed his welcome, bringing junkies into my home while i was out of town on 2 separate occasions. i had a simple request "clean up after yourself, dont bring anyone over" he did both of which i asked him not to. i came back home and there was trash everywhere, dirty dishes on my computer desk downstairs with cigarette butts all over the place, dirty dishes on the stairs, a sink full of dishes upstairs. the bathroom sink had his hair all over it from shaving. it was also agreed that if he was going to live with me he had to stay clean. he has been using meth again. i found ingredients to make meth in my home. this "friend" met some girl at the store and somehow he found out she smokes meth also. he moved into her motel less than a week after meeting her and he has been there since. he has stopped by a few times since he has been staying in the crackhead motel with his junkie girlfriend, coming in for a few minutes, eating my food, changing clothes, leaving a mess, then back to his roach infested motel to smoke more meth ( i presume anyway ). as a part of his probation his probation officer had to come into MY home and search the place. im not the one on probation, i dont want some stranger invading on my privacy because my kindness got the best of me and i allowed a meth head to move into my home. he has had the police over here from arguing and yelling at his junkie girlfriend. he has somehow gotten the idea that because he knows my landlord that this is his apt just as much as it is mine and he thinks he can just come in and out whenever he wants and i cant tell him to leave because the guy i rent from said he can live there, im not sure if he understands how a lease works. his name is not on it, nor is his name on any of the bills i pay here. i finally got tired of it, i sent him a text today and here is the conversation. enjoy.


me - are you gonna get your stiff?

meth junkie - i still live there technically

me - you bring the cops here, trash the place both times i was out of town, talk shit about me and say you don't want to live here and you don't want to be around me and whatever else. so get your stuff.

meth junkie - fuck you dude ill get it when im damn ready dont even think its your fucking decision to make.

me - prime example of why you cant live here. you dont get to do the things you do and expect me to be okay with it. im not (name removed, the guy i rent from) you cant talk to me however you want. i allowed you to live here. it was never your place.

meth junkie - it aint your place either you motherfucker done even think your going to do this. (not sure how it isnt my place.i rent and pay bills here) i dont do shit and havent done shit there either or you are a fucking snitch

me - haha, yea man im not your girlfriend. you dont get to talk to me like you do everyone else.

meth junkie - what you gonna do pussy

me - lol. *name removed* you aren't intimidating.

meth junkie - what you think you are you bitch motherfucker

me - i dont need to be, just as long as i was able to get my point across.

meth junkie - you didnt get no point across who the fuck are you to think you gonna tell me what im gonna do you aint shit its not your place to think you calling shots like that go fuck yourself you egotistical prick ( was surprised he used a big word there, also not sure where he gets the idea its not my place to call shots?)

me - i dont know why you cant get it through your thick skull, i allowed you to stay here when *name removed* said you needed a place to stay for a while. he asked if it was okay, and i agreed. we didnt agree that you would move in and start thinking you can do whatever you want.

meth junkie - fuck you you stupid fucking prick try and kick me out go ahead its not your fucking call (actually it is) and nothing better happen to my shit thats there till i get it when im damn ready anyways bitch why ant you get it through your skull its not your fuckin choice (again, yes it is...smh) we can take it up with *name removed, the guy i rent from* when he gets back otherwise go fuck yourself and dont fucking text me again

me - its already been decided.

meth junkie put me out then bitch you aint got the fucking balls you fucking pussy let something happen to my shit there

me - your stuff will sit where you left it untill you get it. you're already out.

meth junkie - i dont know what made you think you got that power bitch your nothing you aint making no fucking decisions as far as i go unless you think your man enough to make me ill tear your fucking throat out

me - Do it then.

meth junkie - fuck you pussy you the one who wanted to run your fucking mouth through texts (im the one running my mouth?) lets see what you do when i come get my shit not a fucking thing is what

me - you're right, im not going to do anything but watch you get your stuff and leave.

meth junkie - keep running your mouth pussy your just like a fucking bitch wanting to run your mouth over the phone and wont quit dont text me again

me - well, if you feel like you need to do something about it i wont stop you.

meth junkie - like i said bitch run your mouth over the phone this is the third time im saying it dont fucking text me again.

me - come show me im a bitch (the only swear word i used).

End of conversation, will update :)

[Furniture]

Be careful, in ny if someone stays with you for more then 2 weeks or so, legally they live there and can't be forced to leave. I've been there before and had to deal with something similar. This was about 5 years ago. Idk the laws in your state but I'd research

[ridiculousmoose]

DON'T HELP JUNKIES. There, I fixed your problem.

[Pokesan]

i...agree with meth friend? you sound like a beta bitch boy

posting this here is a good example of why

[PlatLordlolz]

i...agree with meth friend? you sound like a beta bitch boy

posting this here is a good example of why

try alpha male infantry veteran. i try to be civil with everyone, i posted mainly everyones cheap entertainment.

[PlatLordlolz]

DON'T HELP JUNKIES. There, I fixed your problem.

him and i were both in the army, so i sympathized. lesson learned.

[kaev]

i...agree with meth friend? you sound like a beta bitch boy

posting this here is a good example of why

RnF done right, brings a crocodile tear to my eye

[PlatLordlolz]

RnF done right, brings a crocodile tear to my eye

i expect these kinds of remarks from pokesan..well played /golf clap

[Pokesan]

him and i were both in the army, so i sympathized. lesson learned.

why'd you clean up after him mr alpha

[surf3001x]

platlordlolz == jibekn

[applesauce25r624]

goddamn tweakers

give him a hotshot

[Sadre Spinegnawer]

Decent solution: Try to figure out a situation where you can get it on record that your landlord is pressuring you to keep this person in your house, then go to cops or get a lawyer about the meth head freak.

The bad person will be taken care of, and if the landlord tries to fuck with you, you will have a record that could mess him up.

Best solution: Do the above, but just move out and dare him/her to take you to court for the remainder of your lease. Your landlord will fuck you sooner or later, and he/she kind of already did, so fuck them first.

[PlatLordlolz]

why'd you clean up after him mr alpha

because im not a slob and like my place to be clean is the simple answer.

[Pokesan]

because im not a slob and like my place to be clean is the simple answer.

how many times did you clean up after him

[TheBiznessTZ]

is this meth head fandango?

[PlatLordlolz]

how many times did you clean up after him

1 too many times

[jarshale]

In other news today a player on the private Everquest server "Project 1999" was gunned down by a meth head outside his house.

[Sorn]

Sounds like you need to break up with him. Here is how you do it.

Step 1: Take all his things and dump them on the front curb.
Step 2: Change all the locks in your apartment so he can't get in.
Step 3: Send pictures of it to his phone. Make sure you aren't there when he shows up next.
Step 4: Mysteriously, it all catches fire before he can get to it...??? How did that happen? No one knows, especially not you.
Step 5: Slash his tires when he comes back, claim innocence and refuse to pay for a tow truck.
Step 6: If he comes back with a gun, shoot him first and cite Stand Your Ground. I hope you pass as white.

Achievement unlocked! You're now the crazy ex!

Alternatively after step 3, you can go a more benign route:
Step 4: Buy pint of Ben & Jerry's, eat it during your next Netflix binge
Step 5: Call your mom and have her tell you you deserve so much better.
Step 6: Post about it on Facebook.
Step 7: Start a new hobby in an attempt to find yourself and/or your center. Either knitting or yoga are best. Kickboxing is okay, too. Rock climbing, not so much. Mafia hitman, definitely not.
Step 8: Congratulate yourself for being single and post about how much you're enjoying life as a single.

Achievement unlocked! You are now a twenty-something white chick who likes pumpkin spice lattes and wearing silk scarves for no reason! You go, girl!

(Disclaimer: This post meant for humorous purposes only.)

[PlatLordlolz]

Sounds like you need to break up with him. Here is how you do it.

Step 1: Take all his things and dump them on the front curb.
Step 2: Change all the locks in your apartment so he can't get in.
Step 3: Send pictures of it to his phone. Make sure you aren't there when he shows up next.
Step 4: Mysteriously, it all catches fire before he can get to it...??? How did that happen? No one knows, especially not you.
Step 5: Slash his tires when he comes back, claim innocence and refuse to pay for a tow truck.
Step 6: If he comes back with a gun, shoot him first and cite Stand Your Ground. I hope you pass as white.

Achievement unlocked! You're now the crazy ex!

Alternatively after step 3, you can go a more benign route:
Step 4: Buy pint of Ben & Jerry's, eat it during your next Netflix binge
Step 5: Call your mom and have her tell you you deserve so much better.
Step 6: Post about it on Facebook.
Step 7: Start a new hobby in an attempt to find yourself and/or your center. Either knitting or yoga are best. Kickboxing is okay, too. Rock climbing, not so much. Mafia hitman, definitely not.
Step 8: Congratulate yourself for being single and post about how much you're enjoying life as a single.

Achievement unlocked! You are now a twenty-something white chick who likes pumpkin spice lattes and wearing silk scarves for no reason! You go, girl!

(Disclaimer: This post meant for humorous purposes only.)

lol that was pretty good.

[BahamutDF]

You can't reason with an addict. You can't expect them to see a rational viewpoint because they're by definition irrational. Some addicts need help but don't know how to get it and / or are too embarrassed to seek it, others need a very severe wake up call. Sounds like this person is the latter. Not much you can really do but distance yourself.

[bktroost]

This problem could have been avoided if you had a sassy gay friend.

"Look at your life, look at your choices." #Sassygayfriend.

[Itap]

You let a meth head live with you?

[PlatLordlolz]

You let a meth head live with you?

i was under the assumption he was clean and genuinely needed help. i was wrong.

[Itap]

From my experience, once a junkie, always a junkie.

[BahamutDF]

From my experience, once a junkie, always a junkie.

Not a productive or even fair outlook; that essentially condemns every single person with an addiction to a predetermined fate. Even on my most jaded day, I can't do that. Lots of people break through the chains and live a good life. Really depends on the person they were before, any comorbid mental health problems, and their support system (or lackthereof).

[Pokesan]

From my experience, once a junkie, always a junkie.

wouldn't it go a long way towards eliminating crime if we simply executed all the drug addicts? theft, muggings, burglary, and *bad mmorpgs would simply vanish!

*brad

[PlatLordlolz]

Not a productive or even fair outlook; that essentially condemns every single person with an addiction to a predetermined fate. Even on my most jaded day, I can't do that. Lots of people break through the chains and live a good life. Really depends on the person they were before, any comorbid mental health problems, and their support system (or lackthereof).

i believe if a person can be helped and is willing to help themselves, they they should get that help. but this is not the case, he was kicked out of the army for meth, was later arrested for attemping to make meth, even after his court hearing i found stuff in my house used to make meth. the guy just doesn't get it, lost cause IMO.

[BahamutDF]

i believe if a person can be helped and is willing to help themselves, they they should get that help. but this is not the case, he was kicked out of the army for meth, was later arrested for attemping to make meth, even after his court hearing i found stuff in my house used to make meth. the guy just doesn't get it, lost cause IMO.

Oh I'm not arguing on behalf of him, just in general.

Best thing you can do is remove yourself from the situation however you have to.

[JayDee]

Never help people like this. 9 times out of 10, there is a reason they are in that position.

[Kushie]

So I shouldnt smoke meth?

[PlatLordlolz]

So I shouldnt smoke meth?

by better judgment says probably not. lol

[ridiculousmoose]

Basically you already fucked up.. the ONLY way to fix it is to move out.. sadre already spelled it out for you.

Any other way is just going to risk you getting shot/stabbed by some meth head trash.

[PlatLordlolz]

Basically you already fucked up.. the ONLY way to fix it is to move out.. sadre already spelled it out for you.

Any other way is just going to risk you getting shot/stabbed by some meth head trash.

kinda hard to move when ive planted my feet in the ground to start a business here. either way im not too worried about it, i conceal carry for a reason.

[ridiculousmoose]

kinda hard to move when ive planted my feet in the ground to start a business here. either way im not too worried about it, i conceal carry for a reason.

How does that stop you from moving.. move a few block away even..

If thats the route your going just remember that meth heads are self destructive and don't care if they get caught doing some crime.. he'll stab you in the parking lot in front of 10 witnesses.

[PlatLordlolz]

How does that stop you from moving.. move a few block away even..

If thats the route your going just remember that meth heads are self destructive and don't care if they get caught doing some crime.. he'll stab you in the parking lot in front of 10 witnesses.

i could move if i wanted to, but why? because some man child didnt get his way and threw a temper tantrum? im not going to inconvenience my life anymore than it already has because of this piece of shit. turns out this has happened multiple times with him. people let him move in because they feel sorry for him and every on of them have kicked him out after a few months because he wears out his welcome and they get tired of his bullshit. its a revolving door. soon it will be his junkie girlfriend, then he'll move on somewhere else. rinse, wash, repeat.

[AzzarTheGod]

i could move if i wanted to, but why? because some man child didnt get his way and threw a temper tantrum? im not going to inconvenience my life anymore than it already has because of this piece of shit. turns out this has happened multiple times with him. people let him move in because they feel sorry for him and every on of them have kicked him out after a few months because he wears out his welcome and they get tired of his bullshit. its a revolving door. soon it will be his junkie girlfriend, then he'll move on somewhere else. rinse, wash, repeat.

Its not worth it.

And this post scares me the most. He sounds like a full blown meth addict. I am NOT trying to intimidate you, or scare you. So lets get that off the table.

Your above post shows you are treating him as a person. You are putting your ego into this as if he was another man.

He is not a person. He may never be a person again. He is erratic. He is using a very volatile drug of abuse. 10x worse than heroin and cocaine. This drug is extremely deleterious when abused, in combination with the lifestyle it comes with. It is NOT simply the drug, there is always a lifestyle involved that contributes to mental health decay. He is in the final stages of addiction, he is a lifer.

Please start examining your options and weighing out if a move is feasible. Seriously do this. Do NOT think of this as retreating. Think of this as you being a member of nobility who must now disassociate and carefully remove and excise a clinger scum peasant from his circle in order to achieve the best possible outcome as a matter of politic. Get the fuck away from him.

Nothing he said was rational. I read the whole convo. Plenty of warning signs that you need to consider what I said in this post. I am worried more about you getting into a pissing match with someone who is not even a human being anymore, you are still a person. Is this sinking in?

You are worth more. You are arguing with a persona non grata as far as im concerned and a grown man should never argue with anything less than another grown man.

[Bazia]

im sorry but there is no way to "help" a grown man get his shit together

they either do it or they dont

[Bazia]

you seem really naive and exploitable i vote cuck

[AzzarTheGod]

you seem really naive and exploitable i vote cuck

This. Also cuck doesn't mean moving to a new place is not a bad idea.

He's made poor choices to live with an addict who is in intense mental anguish and pain, and now he needs to bail himself out.

I vote cuck, but only for getting himself into this situation in the first place.

[PlatLordlolz]

im sorry but there is no way to "help" a grown man get his shit together

they either do it or they dont

people with an elitist attitude like this are why people sometimes fail in life when they could have otherwise done something great with the right motivation. had it not been for other people helping me i would not be able to start my business.

[PlatLordlolz]

you seem really naive and exploitable i vote cuck

i would disagree, myself and this person served together in a combat role in the army. there is very little i wouldn't have done for him.

[PlatLordlolz]

This. Also cuck doesn't mean moving to a new place is not a bad idea.

He's made poor choices to live with an addict who is in intense mental anguish and pain, and now he needs to bail himself out.

I vote cuck, but only for getting himself into this situation in the first place.

lets get it straight, i did not choose to live with an addict, i allowed one who i was under the assumption had been clean for some live with me temporarily. are you some kind of counselor with a degree from your community college?

[Mojo24]

Well, you can just report him to his P.O since he's actively smoking meth at a meth motel (is that a real thing?)

Or just ignore the problem. It's not that serious, he just sounds like a crazy chick at this point.

[PlatLordlolz]

Well, you can just report him to his P.O since he's actively smoking meth at a meth motel (is that a real thing?)

Or just ignore the problem. It's not that serious, he just sounds like a crazy chick at this point.

the latter is what i was leaning towards, once hes got his stuff out of course. just figured id give the RnF community something slightly entertaining to read.

[Ennewi]

"You can turn your back on a person, but never turn your back on a drug, especially when its waving a razor sharp hunting knife in your eye."

[nhdjoseywales]

Be careful, in ny if someone stays with you for more then 2 weeks or so, legally they live there and can't be forced to leave. I've been there before and had to deal with something similar. This was about 5 years ago. Idk the laws in your state but I'd research

This....been there done that. you cannot just kick them out, there must be some eviction process or you have to change all the locks so they cannot physically access the place.

[Monty405]

I MIGHT BE LATE FOR THIS COMMENT, BUT HERE IT GOES:

THIS WOULD NOT HAPPEN ON RED99.

[Packard]

kinda hard to move when ive planted my feet in the ground to start a business here. either way im not too worried about it, i conceal carry for a reason.

I get where you're coming from, I really do, and given the same situation I would probably have bucked as well. However, I'd advise you to take a step back and analyze if this is all worth it. If you want to follow through with something then contact his parole officer. If I understood correctly, your landlord is friends with this guy right? That screws you over big time.

If you can't or won't move, then watch your six at all times. As a fellow CHL in Texas, never give utterance to a threat either. Good luck.

[Kekephee]

OP, this is a very tight spot you're in and I think it was smart of you to seek third-party advice, but I do not believe anyone here can help you. You need to submit any logs and screenshots you have to the GMs via the petition board- they are the only ones who can assist you with this.

http://www.project1999.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=25

[Huggz]

Pokesan, continuing his line of drivel posts because he literally has absolutely nothing to offer.



Good luck evicting the dipshit.

[Rattle Squirrell]

Unfortunately at this point......the guy probably doesn't pose a direct threat. However, now that he has brought unsavory people into your home that are going to do whatever they can to get their next fix. You have numerous things to worry about.

I'd just get the fuck outta there. I'm a Marine myself, and I feel confident in my ability to take care of myself. However, I also enjoy peace of mind. Which i don't think you're going to have as long as you keep yourself in that home.

think carefully on this one bro.

[Bruno]

I MIGHT BE LATE FOR THIS COMMENT, BUT HERE IT GOES:

THIS WOULD NOT HAPPEN ON RED99.

I'm surprised you guys aren't trying to get contact information for his ex-roomy. He meets all of the requirements for you dudes.

[Spyder73]

Stop being a b!tch and beat this dudes ass, tweakers are notoriously skitish and tire easily due to being up for days at a time. But not all of my EQbros are fighters, i understand this. I am lover myself.

You can always scare the sh!t out of him by saying your just going to lie to his PO. Tell him that your going to call his PO pretending to be concerned for his well being and will just start making up terrible sh!t about him (but dont go over the top, make it seems like you are genuinely concerned). Or that you are going to plant drugs in his room and call the cops telling them you found the drugs and are scared and don't know what to do so you called them.

Pretty much you need him to believe that you are crazy enough to go the extra mile to make the authorities THINK he is doing drugs. Remind him that the cops are going to believe you over him, and that if he doesnt stop fucking with you its going to be game time. Tell him your going to follow him to his meth den and then call in noise complaints and report suspicious characters in the area. You gotta step your crazy level up, but you don't actually have to do any of it, the threat needs to be real though

[PlatLordlolz]

OP, this is a very tight spot you're in and I think it was smart of you to seek third-party advice, but I do not believe anyone here can help you. You need to submit any logs and screenshots you have to the GMs via the petition board- they are the only ones who can assist you with this.

http://www.project1999.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=25

lmao, best response.

[PlatLordlolz]

Stop being a b!tch and beat this dudes ass, tweakers are notoriously skitish and tire easily due to being up for days at a time. But not all of my EQbros are fighters, i understand this. I am lover myself.

You can always scare the sh!t out of him by saying your just going to lie to his PO. Tell him that your going to call his PO pretending to be concerned for his well being and will just start making up terrible sh!t about him (but dont go over the top, make it seems like you are genuinely concerned). Or that you are going to plant drugs in his room and call the cops telling them you found the drugs and are scared and don't know what to do so you called them.

Pretty much you need him to believe that you are crazy enough to go the extra mile to make the authorities THINK he is doing drugs. Remind him that the cops are going to believe you over him, and that if he doesnt stop fucking with you its going to be game time. Tell him your going to follow him to his meth den and then call in noise complaints and report suspicious characters in the area. You gotta step your crazy level up, but you don't actually have to do any of it, the threat needs to be real though

i could absolutely wave my man card around, and toss him around like a rag doll, make him eat a brick maybe. but what good is that going to do me when im in jail for beating the dogshit out of him, and then him and his junkie girl are living comfortably in my home untill they cant pay bills anymore. sorry if im not one of those people who needs to fight over everything when there is another way. in fact i enjoy fighting, and wish that i could solve it that way. but the risk of going to jail and having my plans and hard work thrown down the drain is not worth the reward of having this guys teeth stored in a little glass jar.

[dafier]

OP/Bro, learn this lesson and learn it well. Choose your roommates well. 2 of my HS friends I had leeched off me (roommate wise) and after all was said and done, they weren't my friends and they all went back to their parents house.

Unfortunately for me, I learned the second time around.

[maskedmelon]

Such is the deceptive nature of compassion. Failure is endogenous and any attempt to remedy it with charity unto the afflicted, only serves to subsidize the failed condition, fostering more failure.

[Kekephee]

Failure is erogenous



awww yeaaah that's why I'm rollin' in the P

[Huggz]

Oh Keke you are a genius.

[AzzarTheGod]

bump update for lulz n justice.

[Flunklesnarkin]

I'm not sure what state you live in but he may have some sort of tenant rights. He could make your life miserable if he's smart but he's a meth junkie so most likely he can't keep a train of thought longer than two seconds.

If you are renting just break your lease and pay the price to move to a new place. Fuck sticking around all that drama. It's a small price to pay to have some peace and happiness.

My first reaction would be to beat the guys ass and establish alpha dominance of the territory but if you think about it for a second this is a bad path to take. The guy is a meth junkie. He knows where you live. You gonna get robbed.

Why in the world would you ever invite somebody like that into your home to begin with? Some people just crave drama I guess, though i prefer mine to be limited to online only.

[PlatLordlolz]

bump update for lulz n justice.

nothing to update, he has not returned and i have not heard from him. changing the locks tomorrow morning. currently i have the door barred from the inside while for while im home... BUT, after i got off off work the other day i went grocery shopping, bought a bunch of microwave Chinese food, beef and broccoli, good stuff. coldnt wait to get home and eat one. i noticed one of my bowls were missing and ALL of my forks. lol

[PlatLordlolz]

I'm not sure what state you live in but he may have some sort of tenant rights. He could make your life miserable if he's smart but he's a meth junkie so most likely he can't keep a train of thought longer than two seconds.

If you are renting just break your lease and pay the price to move to a new place. Fuck sticking around all that drama. It's a small price to pay to have some peace and happiness.

My first reaction would be to beat the guys ass and establish alpha dominance of the territory but if you think about it for a second this is a bad path to take. The guy is a meth junkie. He knows where you live. You gonna get robbed.

Why in the world would you ever invite somebody like that into your home to begin with? Some people just crave drama I guess, though i prefer mine to be limited to online only.

its alot to read through, but if you read the comments, i stated i let him move in under the impression that he was clean, and it was only supposed to be untill he went to court because everyone was sure he was going to jail. we were also both in the army. anyway he didnt go to jail and i more or less got stuck with him in my home. i absolutely do not enjoy or crave drama, though i do like to dabble in the dark arts of RnF from time to time.

[AzzarTheGod]

its alot to read through, but if you read the comments, i stated i let him move in under the impression that he was clean, and it was only supposed to be untill he went to court because everyone was sure he was going to jail. we were also both in the army. anyway he didnt go to jail and i more or less got stuck with him in my home. i absolutely do not enjoy or crave drama, though i do like to dabble in the dark arts of RnF from time to time.

Yeah I knee-jerked on you earlier in the thread, I get triggered irl by this kind of stuff and end up givin people overly cautious advice to avoid their own possible mess. An urge to vicariously create a good outcome. Even if a pal has it under control, I shoot from the hip.

BUT, after i got off off work the other day i went grocery shopping, bought a bunch of microwave Chinese food, beef and broccoli, good stuff. coldnt wait to get home and eat one. i noticed one of my bowls were missing and ALL of my forks. lol

So how did you get so calm about stupid shit happening to you? If it were me I'd be considering which area of his face I was going to punch and what he deserved.

Are you on any medication? What is your secret? Were you always this way even when you were younger?

Curious mind of a big brute wants to know if he has a chance to one day let stuff like this just roll off of his back like Platlordlolz.

[AzzarTheGod]

you delusional troll fuckwit!!!



so you knew he was a serious drug addict but 'not currently' STRIKE ONE.



obviously a stand up character. STRIKE TWO.



STRIKE THREE. You should definitely know to stay away from those people unless he saved your damn life u daddy attention craving closet case


I SAID GOOD DAY SIR

I think he is on a prescription medication, that's the only explanation I can think of for how he agreed to this situation and how he is just taking the entire thing at face value after inviting the scum of the earth into his life.

If you are its cool man, I am really curious actually because I'm struggling to believe he made these decisions while sober with a natural mind. He must be on some Antidepressant like Prozac/Zoloft or something. If this guy isn't on an SSRI I'd be kind of surprised.

[Farzo]

ok, so this is the back story. i let a friend move into my apt because he was homeless, had no where else to go, and had court coming up for possession of precursors with intent to manufacture methamphetamine. the person i rent from knows this "friend" also because he used to work for him. anyways the guy i rent from got ahold of me and told me about this "friend" and asked if it was okay he moved in for a while untill he had court, because after court he was more than likely going to jail. court finally came and he was given 4 years probation 4 years in jail with all time suspended. this friend has over stayed his welcome, bringing junkies into my home while i was out of town on 2 separate occasions. i had a simple request "clean up after yourself, dont bring anyone over" he did both of which i asked him not to. i came back home and there was trash everywhere, dirty dishes on my computer desk downstairs with cigarette butts all over the place, dirty dishes on the stairs, a sink full of dishes upstairs. the bathroom sink had his hair all over it from shaving. it was also agreed that if he was going to live with me he had to stay clean. he has been using meth again. i found ingredients to make meth in my home. this "friend" met some girl at the store and somehow he found out she smokes meth also. he moved into her motel less than a week after meeting her and he has been there since. he has stopped by a few times since he has been staying in the crackhead motel with his junkie girlfriend, coming in for a few minutes, eating my food, changing clothes, leaving a mess, then back to his roach infested motel to smoke more meth ( i presume anyway ). as a part of his probation his probation officer had to come into MY home and search the place. im not the one on probation, i dont want some stranger invading on my privacy because my kindness got the best of me and i allowed a meth head to move into my home. he has had the police over here from arguing and yelling at his junkie girlfriend. he has somehow gotten the idea that because he knows my landlord that this is his apt just as much as it is mine and he thinks he can just come in and out whenever he wants and i cant tell him to leave because the guy i rent from said he can live there, im not sure if he understands how a lease works. his name is not on it, nor is his name on any of the bills i pay here. i finally got tired of it, i sent him a text today and here is the conversation. enjoy.


me - are you gonna get your stiff?

meth junkie - i still live there technically

me - you bring the cops here, trash the place both times i was out of town, talk shit about me and say you don't want to live here and you don't want to be around me and whatever else. so get your stuff.

meth junkie - fuck you dude ill get it when im damn ready dont even think its your fucking decision to make.

me - prime example of why you cant live here. you dont get to do the things you do and expect me to be okay with it. im not (name removed, the guy i rent from) you cant talk to me however you want. i allowed you to live here. it was never your place.

meth junkie - it aint your place either you motherfucker done even think your going to do this. (not sure how it isnt my place.i rent and pay bills here) i dont do shit and havent done shit there either or you are a fucking snitch

me - haha, yea man im not your girlfriend. you dont get to talk to me like you do everyone else.

meth junkie - what you gonna do pussy

me - lol. *name removed* you aren't intimidating.

meth junkie - what you think you are you bitch motherfucker

me - i dont need to be, just as long as i was able to get my point across.

meth junkie - you didnt get no point across who the fuck are you to think you gonna tell me what im gonna do you aint shit its not your place to think you calling shots like that go fuck yourself you egotistical prick ( was surprised he used a big word there, also not sure where he gets the idea its not my place to call shots?)

me - i dont know why you cant get it through your thick skull, i allowed you to stay here when *name removed* said you needed a place to stay for a while. he asked if it was okay, and i agreed. we didnt agree that you would move in and start thinking you can do whatever you want.

meth junkie - fuck you you stupid fucking prick try and kick me out go ahead its not your fucking call (actually it is) and nothing better happen to my shit thats there till i get it when im damn ready anyways bitch why ant you get it through your skull its not your fuckin choice (again, yes it is...smh) we can take it up with *name removed, the guy i rent from* when he gets back otherwise go fuck yourself and dont fucking text me again

me - its already been decided.

meth junkie put me out then bitch you aint got the fucking balls you fucking pussy let something happen to my shit there

me - your stuff will sit where you left it untill you get it. you're already out.

meth junkie - i dont know what made you think you got that power bitch your nothing you aint making no fucking decisions as far as i go unless you think your man enough to make me ill tear your fucking throat out

me - Do it then.

meth junkie - fuck you pussy you the one who wanted to run your fucking mouth through texts (im the one running my mouth?) lets see what you do when i come get my shit not a fucking thing is what

me - you're right, im not going to do anything but watch you get your stuff and leave.

meth junkie - keep running your mouth pussy your just like a fucking bitch wanting to run your mouth over the phone and wont quit dont text me again

me - well, if you feel like you need to do something about it i wont stop you.

meth junkie - like i said bitch run your mouth over the phone this is the third time im saying it dont fucking text me again.

me - come show me im a bitch (the only swear word i used).

End of conversation, will update :)

morale of this story is dont fucking try and help drug addicts.

I did it once in my life and will NEVER do it again.

THEY ARE LOOKING, SEEKING, EYE BALLING, FOR PEOPLE TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM SO THEY CAN LATCH ON TO THEM AND SAP THEM OF WHATEVER THEY CAN GET FOR FREE.

[Farzo]

THEY ARE ALL THE SAME, the moment you start to feel:

a) sorry for them
b) that they are honestly trying to change
c) you'er the one that can help them

you're fucked, they about to gang bang ur arsehole

[Farzo]

esp: meth heads, crack heads, and heroin junkies.

[AzzarTheGod]

THEY ARE ALL THE SAME, the moment you start to feel:

a) sorry for them
b) that they are honestly trying to change
c) you'er the one that can help them

you're fucked, they about to gang bang ur arsehole

What if they are independently wealthy/financially secure?....

[PlatLordlolz]

Yeah I knee-jerked on you earlier in the thread, I get triggered irl by this kind of stuff and end up givin people overly cautious advice to avoid their own possible mess. An urge to vicariously create a good outcome. Even if a pal has it under control, I shoot from the hip.



So how did you get so calm about stupid shit happening to you? If it were me I'd be considering which area of his face I was going to punch and what he deserved.

Are you on any medication? What is your secret? Were you always this way even when you were younger?

Curious mind of a big brute wants to know if he has a chance to one day let stuff like this just roll off of his back like Platlordlolz.

the thing with the bowl and forks i was mad at first, then i couldnt help but laugh in my kitchen after thinking about it, i mean who steals 1 bowl and a bunch of forks, lol. nothing else was missing. no im not on any medication, i think maybe im so calm and collective about it, is because i realize how much better my life has turned out than his, thats the ultimate win.

[Farzo]

What if they are independently wealthy/financially secure?....

den dey the happiest druggie u'll know till come down day.

[AzzarTheGod]

i think maybe im so calm and collective about it, is because i realize how much better my life has turned out than his, thats the ultimate win.

Yeah, I can def dig that...

Some people don't appreciate their own success or are quick to take a little success for granted. I've told myself stuff like "well it could always be worse" in relation to small problems but it did nothing to make me feel better.

Now I have the secret! Immerse myself around real failures at life and breathe deep at how good I have it.

[Farzo]

i made the mistake of getting my methhead brother in law a job because he was "trying to get his life together". 3 weeks later he met a heroin junkie on a job and a week later he was almost ODing shooting up heroin.

Was a solid effort of coming clean.

Money+Drug Addict = no self control.

[PlatLordlolz]

you delusional troll fuckwit!!!



so you knew he was a serious drug addict but 'not currently' STRIKE ONE.




i didnt know how serious it was, i hadnt seen the guy in a few years. i had only heard what other people said and figured they were just gossiping so i didnt really buy into it...they werent exaggerating and i will remember this for the next friend who starts a conversation with me that i haven't seen in a few years.

[AzzarTheGod]

Need an update Plat. Whats the latest?

[Whirled]

Good on you for being a strong friend to someone who needs one. Flip side, my sympathies for your dealing with watching your friend crumble in front of you. Many people walk away when most need just that 1 friend who keeps pointing in the right direction or is that shining light in the darkness.

https://www.quora.com/How-do-you-help-someone-who-cant-help-themselves

[heartbrand]

Can't believe this many people took OP's bait. This is the internet. Literally nothing in the OP ever happened.

[Ruinous]

Can't believe this many people took OP's bait. This is the internet. Literally nothing in the OP ever happened.

Why does it matter whether it actually happened or not? This IS the internet, and the story has no direct bearing on the rest of us regardless of whether it did or did not happen.

It was a funny read in either case.

[Goobles]

Change locks. Tell him to call the cops to retrieve it. I think he has 30 or 45 days before the stuff is deemed abandoned and you may claim it.

I had a similar issue a year ago.

[AzzarTheGod]

If it was a fraud then let him speak on it himself.

If he posts an update it is what it is. I believe him.

[visage]

Having a similar situation a long time ago. Eviction laws are ridiculous and nuts. You could've got a restraining order with a move out decree. They would've issued a temporary on the spot and had the police escort him. This day in age law enforcement , least here in Cali... Don't like to touch shit like this , unless you got a court order. I literally had a old friend of mine move his shit in my house randomly one day while I was at work. When I had the police remove him , they wouldn't do shit. I had to wait until the weekend was over to go to the court house and file shit to get him removed. Fucker got a free hotel stay over the weekend while prancing around as if he won the battle of the wits. Drugs bro drugs

[stormlord]

AFter reading the texts I was praying you carry a permit to own a gun because what if.

People on meth can lose it. Go ballistic. It's real. Anybody addicted will be a *****, but meth...

[PlatLordlolz]

If it was a fraud then let him speak on it himself.

If he posts an update it is what it is. I believe him.

nothing major to update. he hasnt returned for his stuff and i havent heard from him. ive changed the deadbolt on the door. far as i know hes still at the motel with that girl probably sitting in a corner doing whatever it is junkies do.

[PlatLordlolz]

AFter reading the texts I was praying you carry a permit to own a gun because what if.

People on meth can lose it. Go ballistic. It's real. Anybody addicted will be a *****, but meth...

yes, i carry.

[PlatLordlolz]

Can't believe this many people took OP's bait. This is the internet. Literally nothing in the OP ever happened.

what reason exactly would there be to bait? makes no difference to me if you believe it or not.

[PlatLordlolz]

---UPDATE--- said person has retrieved his belongings (most of it). he left some of his stuff here which is now somewhere in the landfill. his newly beloved meth addict girlfriend missed her period LOL. as far as i know he is still living in the same motel with her.

i was at the american legion for haloween where another post member informed me that she had seen my "friend" at the gas station, and that he was telling the people inside a twisted version of the story that where i live is actually HIS place and that he kicked ME out and yada yada, little did he know my friend was standing behind him listening to his bullshit the entire time, i guess he didnt recognise her. she let him finish speaking and then let everyone know he was lying. apparently everyone in the store was wondering why he was even talking about it in the first place because not a single person knew who he was, and they could all tell that he was on something, my guess would be it was his drug of choice, meth.

LOL i mean how far gone does someone have to be to tell stories like this. im pretty sure i was not kicked out of my own home, that my name is on, where my mail and bills get sent to, and that i pay for, by someone who doesnt live here... it doesnt make sense but then again i guess it doesnt have to and it never will.... some people man.

[maerilith]

---UPDATE--- said person has retrieved his belongings (most of it). he left some of his stuff here which is now somewhere in the landfill. his newly beloved meth addict girlfriend missed her period LOL. as far as i know he is still living in the same motel with her.

i was at the american legion for haloween where another post member informed me that she had seen my "friend" at the gas station, and that he was telling the people inside a twisted version of the story that where i live is actually HIS place and that he kicked ME out and yada yada, little did he know my friend was standing behind him listening to his bullshit the entire time, i guess he didnt recognise her. she let him finish speaking and then let everyone know he was lying. apparently everyone in the store was wondering why he was even talking about it in the first place because not a single person knew who he was, and they could all tell that he was on something, my guess would be it was his drug of choice, meth.

LOL i mean how far gone does someone have to be to tell stories like this. im pretty sure i was not kicked out of my own home, that my name is on, where my mail and bills get sent to, and that i pay for, by someone who doesnt live here... it doesnt make sense but then again i guess it doesnt have to and it never will.... some people man.

Good job jibekn u turned out to be a half decent human IRL and didn't kill the poor sob outright.

[CrazyHorse]

This is what you get when you aren't assertive and let meth heads into your home.

[AzzarTheGod]

---UPDATE--- said person has retrieved his belongings (most of it). he left some of his stuff here which is now somewhere in the landfill. his newly beloved meth addict girlfriend missed her period LOL. as far as i know he is still living in the same motel with her.

i was at the american legion for haloween where another post member informed me that she had seen my "friend" at the gas station, and that he was telling the people inside a twisted version of the story that where i live is actually HIS place and that he kicked ME out and yada yada, little did he know my friend was standing behind him listening to his bullshit the entire time, i guess he didnt recognise her. she let him finish speaking and then let everyone know he was lying. apparently everyone in the store was wondering why he was even talking about it in the first place because not a single person knew who he was, and they could all tell that he was on something, my guess would be it was his drug of choice, meth.

LOL i mean how far gone does someone have to be to tell stories like this. im pretty sure i was not kicked out of my own home, that my name is on, where my mail and bills get sent to, and that i pay for, by someone who doesnt live here... it doesnt make sense but then again i guess it doesnt have to and it never will.... some people man.

Its just really sad to me. I'd never take the guy in or give him a dollar of my time, but watching (even through little anecdotes and story-sharing like your friend shared) would make me feel bad that he was possibly past the point of no return. Just on some "wow, drugs man lol." head shaking type of shit.

Meth is one of the only street drugs that justifies the war on drugs for me personally. Its like everyone who uses it is just a lost cause. Ive talked to fully recovered addicts and 0 of them were meth users so far. I know guys who have fucked with opiates, blow, etc and it was just a phase and they left it behind realizing it was stupid and toxic and what an asshole they were calling me up out of the blue years later to apologize for said behavior and just wanted me to know they were doing well. And upon meeting up you would never guess they touched a drug.

I don't hear about many people regaining their marbles with meth. Its a constant spiral where you really embarrass yourself and get some kind of serious mental illness apparently real quick.

Keep us posted on whats next up for this guy if you hear anything for lols. Did you ever relate to him in conversation early on that he should get his shit together? Hoping its case closed on this one for you.

[Rick Sanchez]

Get better friends.