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Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 11:17 AM
So ive been asked to make an apology to re-instate my account and i think its a fair request because i did take it too far.

Im known for my frankness and ill do it without "kissing ass" to get my account back.
Although there is a track record of staff leaving server to its own devices to deteriorate, i made a bad call by assuming it would be the same this time.
What im apologising for, is the negativity i brought. The server is run on free time and although i would like this server to grow, letting the ad hominems fly at the staff isnt helping toward that goal.

The staff did come through in the end with the promised changes.

I think i bring something with the criticism i lay down, but its the way i say it. For the good of the community ill try to stay positive and not let exasperation get the best of me.
People who know me in-game know im laid back and like to help and have fun, and im not living up to that on the forums.
There is some criticism to be made at decisions taken by the staff though, im not retracting that. But i think theyve been fair in allowing this to be present on the forums, as my ban only came when i straight up let the ad hominems fly.

My dad also died 2 years ago and i get mood swings heh, ill just skip the forums when i feel like kicking kittens.

So im not sure if that unlocks my account but its what i feel is a sincere apology for going somewhere that doesnt help the community grow.
I hate to be that tomato kinda guy and ill do my best not to be that guy

lol

godspeed

thugcruncher
05-03-2014, 11:19 AM
http://www.elle.com/cm/elle/images/3r/Cryinggifs_01_1.gif

SamwiseRed
05-03-2014, 11:27 AM
wb. if you remain banned just reroll. xp bonus that good. i have a handful of chars that can level with you.

Gaanon
05-03-2014, 11:28 AM
My dad also died 2 years ago and i get mood swings heh, ill just skip the forums when i feel like kicking kittens.


Pullen out the big guns eh.

Littlegyno 11.0
05-03-2014, 11:31 AM
So ive been asked to make an apology to re-instate my account and i think its a fair request because i did take it too far.

Im known for my frankness and ill do it without "kissing ass" to get my account back.
Although there is a track record of staff leaving server to its own devices to deteriorate, i made a bad call by assuming it would be the same this time.
What im apologising for, is the negativity i brought. The server is run on free time and although i would like this server to grow, letting the ad hominems fly at the staff isnt helping toward that goal.

The staff did come through in the end with the promised changes.

I think i bring something with the criticism i lay down, but its the way i say it. For the good of the community ill try to stay positive and not let exasperation get the best of me.
People who know me in-game know im laid back and like to help and have fun, and im not living up to that on the forums.
There is some criticism to be made at decisions taken by the staff though, im not retracting that. But i think theyve been fair in allowing this to be present on the forums, as my ban only came when i straight up let the ad hominems fly.

My dad also died 2 years ago and i get mood swings heh, ill just skip the forums when i feel like kicking kittens.

So im not sure if that unlocks my account but its what i feel is a sincere apology for going somewhere that doesnt help the community grow.
I hate to be that tomato kinda guy and ill do my best not to be that guy

lol

godspeed

forced apology - check
back handed way of saying staff sucks - check
using dad as excuse - check
giant piece of shit - check.

I'm glad the staff gave u some leniency though. they are FUCKING ANGELS.

pras sirkdog, derudog, zadedog, aussiedog, nildog, and rogdog.

Swish
05-03-2014, 11:31 AM
My dad also died 2 years ago and i get mood swings heh, ill just skip the forums when i feel like kicking kittens.

It's those heartfelt stories that win American Idol and stuff.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 11:36 AM
It doesnt excuse my behavior, its just to factor in. Basically theres no need to go nuclear bomb on the staff, it doesnt help the community, staff doesnt deserve straight up negative ad hominems because they are after all providing us with a somewhat classic red pvp server, i understand that. Which is why im ready to do this thread without feeling like im kissing ass. Ill keep criticising, id be lying if i would say otherwise, but im going to remove the ad hominems altogether and always try to come up with solutions instead of OMG u suck.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 11:37 AM
lol i didnt miss that part of the community i can tell you that though

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 11:40 AM
Im not ready to say i was all wrong, staff was all right, thats right.

People had a reason to be pissed off ball was dropped but staff did take responsability for it so i mean thats that.

HippoNipple
05-03-2014, 11:50 AM
Im not ready to say i was all wrong

You should be. No one really cares what you say. This is just a walk of shame for you to get something you want back. A transaction. Your dignity for your account back, don't screw up the deal.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 11:58 AM
You should be. No one really cares what you say. This is just a walk of shame for you to get something you want back. A transaction. Your dignity for your account back, don't screw up the deal.

Thing is, i dont want it that badly, its going to be a fair apology, or nothing at all.

Anyhow i shouldnt even be responding to trolls like hippo and gino, part of the reason why i reacted the way i did is because forums is (or was, when people are happy forum gets better) so toxic that it becomes habitual and if youre not careful it taints you, too.

Fame
05-03-2014, 11:59 AM
lol

Azure
05-03-2014, 12:08 PM
I love you still tradesonred. I was really sad to see you going down in flames so hard. I did my best in my own way to try and put the fire out quickly. I truly hope your sincere apology gets your account reinstated.

Bazia
05-03-2014, 12:12 PM
Ecoli is just another person who is really cool in-game but the forum brings out a really douchey/whiny side to him

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 12:14 PM
I was pissed off, it was a "suicide by cop" and they were right to ban me, ill say that much.

Going down in flames so hard a good analogy lol

I told em to go fuck themselves and they dont deserve that in the least for putting up all that work for a free emu of the game we love.

Azure
05-03-2014, 12:16 PM
I was pissed off, it was a "suicide by cop" and they were right to ban me, ill say that much.

Going down in flames so hard a good analogy lol

I told em to go fuck themselves and they dont deserve that in the least for putting up all that work for a free emu of the game we love.

To be fair the entire building was burning, you were not the only one hehe.

Casey VII
05-03-2014, 12:38 PM
Nihi scum

JPMorgan
05-03-2014, 12:42 PM
So ive been asked to make an apology to re-instate my account and i think its a fair request because i did take it too far.

Im known for my frankness and ill do it without "kissing ass" to get my account back.
Although there is a track record of staff leaving server to its own devices to deteriorate, i made a bad call by assuming it would be the same this time.
What im apologising for, is the negativity i brought. The server is run on free time and although i would like this server to grow, letting the ad hominems fly at the staff isnt helping toward that goal.

The staff did come through in the end with the promised changes.

I think i bring something with the criticism i lay down, but its the way i say it. For the good of the community ill try to stay positive and not let exasperation get the best of me.
People who know me in-game know im laid back and like to help and have fun, and im not living up to that on the forums.
There is some criticism to be made at decisions taken by the staff though, im not retracting that. But i think theyve been fair in allowing this to be present on the forums, as my ban only came when i straight up let the ad hominems fly.

My dad also died 2 years ago and i get mood swings heh, ill just skip the forums when i feel like kicking kittens.

So im not sure if that unlocks my account but its what i feel is a sincere apology for going somewhere that doesnt help the community grow.
I hate to be that tomato kinda guy and ill do my best not to be that guy

lol

godspeed

http://i38.tinypic.com/ab5vnq.gif

Fame
05-03-2014, 12:53 PM
Isnt trades nirgon?

Azure
05-03-2014, 01:04 PM
Isnt trades nirgon?

http://i.imgur.com/ZxhJALCl.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/3E41cd2l.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/qj2i3Owl.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/Mvekiusl.jpg

Terpuntine
05-03-2014, 01:07 PM
Keep him banned, this apology reeks of BS.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 01:12 PM
lol poor terp

u know grudges like that gonna give u ulcers and shit right

Derubael
05-03-2014, 01:30 PM
I already released your account, but I don't actually see the words "I'm sorry" in this post anywhere.

Like I said in your petition thread, I couldn't care less what people say about me, my decisions, actions, or posts, but you'd better believe I'm going to start throwing hammers when you level those comments at the rest of the staff.

Those are the people you need to be apologizing to. Would like to see you actually say it.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 01:35 PM
And you were right in handing that ban, im not going to dispute that.

Im sorry for my behavior, i thought the post was pretty clear that i was apologizing for the negativity, insulting the staff when they put in work for us etc.

Thx for the unban i wont make you regret the decision ;)

Softcore PK
05-03-2014, 01:45 PM
Apologies are hard, and forgiveness is harder. Both take big people imo.

Welcome back, Trades! It's good to have you. Mood swings seem to be the norm these days; probably all the processed foods and massive amounts of sugar we consume.

Bamz4l
05-03-2014, 01:50 PM
I hate tradesonred/ecoli. I wish that he was permantnly banned. Especially on forums

Fame
05-03-2014, 02:09 PM
http://i.imgur.com/ZxhJALCl.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/3E41cd2l.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/qj2i3Owl.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/Mvekiusl.jpg

Oh it's not? Coulda swore I remembered something about him, nirgon, 20,000 platinum and a thread where nirgon came clean. This might have been more than a year ago

Recycled Children
05-03-2014, 02:11 PM
Here's how your apology reads:

I'm only sorry so I can get my stuff back.

I'm a straight fuckin' shooter and a bad ass. I'm going to apologize my way by not apologizing. I'm an entitled man child and acted accordingly by throwing blind insults to staff because I didn't get what I wanted.

The staff shoved it's dick in my ass and I realized I'm not untouchable.

My words are important because I say them. I'm going to stop being a dick because I found out my words have consequences. As a result of my life lesson I'm letting go of my convictions so I can get my toys back.

My dad died 2 years ago so I'm going to keep using that as an excuse to act like a child and pull the sympathy card anytime someone calls me out on my bullshit.

Hopefully I met the criteria of what the staff asked me to do. I'm not sure I know what an apology is but I think this is one. Please don't Deruban me bros.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-apology_apology

Rettj
05-03-2014, 02:11 PM
deru how come this guy gets to say sorry and get unbanned and nobody else does

Nirgon
05-03-2014, 02:14 PM
Bad ForumQuest

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 02:14 PM
its strictly a forum ban, nothing to do with cheating in game

Fame
05-03-2014, 02:18 PM
Could be wrong, tried searching for the old thread, might be gone or I might have been smoking too much this morning.

Tradesonred
05-03-2014, 02:23 PM
See all the toxics posting in this thread, thats why i was unhappy about how things turned out, because alot of the non-toxics were leaving the boat, which meant lesser chances of non-toxic fresh fishes joining. Not sure ill ever play again with Thresh and ryser and players like that. That said, my behavior wasnt helping retain players, either. Like i said.

But i like the changes, so i think imma try hard to just ignore the toxic vets, go with it and be my helpy self in game and try to see if we cant do something nice with all this. Could be a fresh start with build up to Velious.

Nirgon
05-03-2014, 02:23 PM
Took presumably Tune for 35k like he gives a fux. Guy wipes his ass with Trak BPs. Thing is that traded out for 100k blue.

Personally I'd make people apologize then not reinstate their accounts. You know? Give them a taste of their own box scum medicine?

Emperor Rogean made the level range classic as fuck, zero tolla-ence fo disrespect.

Not Salem
05-03-2014, 02:58 PM
I give Ecoli 2 weeks before he's quadrouple posting complete trash on the verge of a mental break down, and maybe 2 weeks 2 days before he quits again. Scoop him up while you can Nili gona need every body yoU can get!

Kimm Bare|y
05-03-2014, 03:08 PM
http://i1.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/743/004/3d2.jpg

Clark
05-03-2014, 09:24 PM
Don't reinstate this guy he always seems like a huge douche noob when making posts.

Cfred0-
05-03-2014, 09:28 PM
Keep him banned, its a forum account it doesnt mean shit.

Gryk
05-04-2014, 02:49 AM
http://www.elle.com/cm/elle/images/3r/Cryinggifs_01_1.gif

looool

Tradesonred
05-04-2014, 03:42 AM
I wasnt gonna touch this thread again but since youre a guide

I fail to see whats funny, yet another clone post that are a plague in these parts, of painting what someone else is writing as crying. Either be it to drown out criticism you dont like, or as just an attempt to forum warrior your way into the black hearts of the toxics.

Least you can do as a guide is not to egg on toxics

Littlegyno 11.0
05-04-2014, 04:03 AM
I wasnt gonna touch this thread again but since youre a guide

I fail to see whats funny, yet another clone post that are a plague in these parts, of painting what someone else is writing as crying. Either be it to drown out criticism you dont like, or as just an attempt to forum warrior your way into the black hearts of the toxics.

Least you can do as a guide is not to egg on toxics

maybe u can try quitting being a FUCKING RETARD and mind ur own fuking business.

this thread is about u apologizing to our wonderful community and staff. u dont get to be a pretentious maggot at the same time dawg.

Littlegyno 11.0
05-04-2014, 04:06 AM
4 the record, i dunno who tradesonred is. i'm just a troll.

Smedy
05-04-2014, 04:13 AM
was just wondering, who is trades on red so we may lay judgement

Littlegyno 11.0
05-04-2014, 04:15 AM
was just wondering, who is trades on red so we may lay judgement

shrug, i just like getting into the middle of things u kno?

Smedy
05-04-2014, 04:16 AM
ooo i feels u dog

Not_Kazowi
05-04-2014, 04:16 AM
shrug, i just like getting into the middle of things u kno?

Gyno up at 3AM tryin to be rustle crow

Namean?

Sektor
05-04-2014, 09:48 AM
Hey Ecoli hope all is well.

fiegi 8.0
05-04-2014, 09:55 AM
forced apology - check
back handed way of saying staff sucks - check
using dad as excuse - check
giant piece of shit - check.

freez
05-04-2014, 10:31 AM
who

mostbitter
05-04-2014, 12:05 PM
hahaha ecoli sux

Tasslehofp99
05-04-2014, 12:43 PM
this thread is great

Humerox
05-04-2014, 09:44 PM
glad to see you back.

Tassador
05-04-2014, 09:46 PM
wb sir glad you got your rehab in.

Telron
05-04-2014, 10:46 PM
If you say ad hominems one more time!

Telron
05-04-2014, 10:48 PM
Originally Posted by Littlegyno 11.0 View Post
forced apology - check
back handed way of saying staff sucks - check
using dad as excuse - check
giant piece of shit - check.

Pretty good summation of this thread.

Clark
05-05-2014, 01:04 AM
was just wondering, who is trades on red so we may lay judgement

He's some fool in Nihilum.

Tradesonred
05-05-2014, 01:28 AM
He's some fool in Nihilum.

People who dont know better talkin shit on the forums, for a change. Havent been in nihilum since early 2012.

Please lock this thread as its become a showcase for exactly the thing i do not want to contribute to anymore.

Littlegyno 11.0
05-05-2014, 02:00 AM
People who dont know better talkin shit on the forums, for a change. Havent been in nihilum since early 2012.

Please lock this thread as its become a showcase for exactly the thing i do not want to contribute to anymore.

naw.

Cfred0-
05-05-2014, 02:16 AM
I wasnt gonna touch this thread again but since youre a guide

I fail to see whats funny, yet another clone post that are a plague in these parts, of painting what someone else is writing as crying. Either be it to drown out criticism you dont like, or as just an attempt to forum warrior your way into the black hearts of the toxics.

Least you can do as a guide is not to egg on toxics

Ban him.

Smedy
05-05-2014, 05:02 AM
this shit sorta backfired, hoho

Tradesonred
05-05-2014, 05:38 AM
The only thing thats backfiring is peoples own hostility, on them and the servers rep.

Me, i dont really give a fuck.

Littlegyno 11.0
05-05-2014, 08:09 AM
this shit sorta backfired, hoho

hohohoho

HippoNipple
05-05-2014, 09:26 AM
For the good of the community ill try to stay positive and not let exasperation get the best of me.


The only thing thats backfiring is peoples own hostility, on them and the servers rep.

Me, i dont really give a fuck.

That didn't take long.

Heavenzoutcast
05-05-2014, 09:32 AM
That didn't take long.

So true. ^^

Tradesonred
05-05-2014, 10:40 AM
So saying that constantly trolling, constantly being hostile to people just cuz, is shitting where you eat, thats being negative right.

LulzSect
05-05-2014, 10:52 AM
http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/i/keep-calm-you-jerk-im-a-angry-spaniard.png

Heavenzoutcast
05-05-2014, 12:20 PM
Please lock this thread as its become a showcase for exactly the thing i do not want to contribute to anymore.

So saying that constantly trolling, constantly being hostile to people just cuz, is shitting where you eat, thats being negative right.

This is what people are talking about. Stop posting and it might go away. Do you not see that you post over and over is making it worse for you? I'm trying to help you out, then again, lame ass excuses a child uses to get what they want don't run by me very well either.

/Mute yourself for a while, unless you enjoy being the center of attention. In that case, then by all means, post some more BS. This community loves a good show.

Tzeriel
05-05-2014, 12:43 PM
Why would they lock a thread where you are going to prove that they were right? When you apologize, people aren't obligated to bro hug you and say it's ok. That is a child's expectation. You wanna stir the shit? Be prepared to lick the spoon. If you're not willing to take the verbal beat down you deserve, don't even bother with the fake apology.

HippoNipple
05-05-2014, 12:45 PM
Why would they lock a thread where you are going to prove that they were right? When you apologize, people aren't obligated to bro hug you and say it's ok. That is a child's expectation. You wanna stir the shit? Be prepared to lick the spoon. If you're not willing to take the verbal beat down you deserve, don't even bother with the fake apology.

Exactly, and thank you fellow forum posters in helping this public humiliation along. Working as intended. Justice is being served and the punishment for his sins wouldn't fit the crime without the added insults from the community.